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1. This thread is stupid...
2. If an extrovert screams in the woods and no one is there to hear it, does he sound emo? 3. See #1... |
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02-28-2018, 12:54 PM | #24 |
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A woman knows within seconds whether or not she is going to sleep with you. You don't need money to get laid. In fact, if you need money to get laid don't expect much from the lady that you're keeping company with. Shallow women may look good, but that's about it. Womens opinions and feelings change about every 5 minutes with or without reason, cause or justification. Their entire world is ruled by emotion. The quicker you figure this out and learn to make it work to your advantage, the more sex you will have. Being in great shape only works if she is shallow or if you don't have a brain. If you are comfortable in your own skin and able to have an intelligent conversation and aren't gross; you're good. Just be honest. You'd be amazed at how well this works. If you're poor, don't try to act rich. If you are only interested in sex, tell them......you'd be blown away at how often this works. Confidence is key. Be confident, not cocky. Brush your teeth, smell nice, keep your house and especially your bed clean and smelling nice. Make her feel comfortable and you should have no problems with the ladies. Also, have a large package and make it available to be noticed....don't draw attention to it, let them notice on their own. Drive a BMW. |
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02-28-2018, 01:10 PM | #25 | |
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Some of the hottest women I've dated I met when I was broke in college and right after graduating. I weighed 140lbs (at 5'10), had an older car, basically broke, and didn't have my own place. Liked stated above a woman will know pretty quickly if she would sleep with you. Shes attracted to you, not the money, not the cars, not even having your shit together (look at a lot of the losers women date). Having your shit together and being level headed, having a job, a car, not being an asshole, etc is how you keep a woman as a GF. Ever bang a girl in her friend's apartment after only knowing her a few hours? She knows nothing about your money, your car, or if you own your own place. All she knows is she is attracted to you.
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02-28-2018, 01:59 PM | #27 |
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02-28-2018, 02:04 PM | #29 | |
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02-28-2018, 02:15 PM | #30 |
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Ever watch those "quick pickup" videos on youtube where guys approach random women? While I'm still convinced those are staged, the point they make is similar to what you should do in real life.
Obviously, standing there asking girls out as they walk by is stupid and will never work (would show desperation), but the witty banter shown in some of their clips does work. Girls like to be teased. Approaching them in a confident, non-creepy way and making a simple joke followed by some playful teasing will usually win them over if you aren't a gross creepy dude. This is where the extrovert vs. introvert thing comes into play. It's okay to be an introvert if you know what to say and when. Being overly talkative or too loud at first can actually cause women you are approaching to go on the defensive, and they will likely not feel comfortable. Knowing when to walk away when she isn't interested is important too. Like I stated above, you have to know the line between being outgoing and approachable compared to just being annoying and intrusive. The whole argument of extrovert versus introvert is really just dependent on how someone can handle themselves.
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My little brother is one of the most confident people I know but is completely devoid of cockiness. He cant hold down a full time job, didn't have a driver's license until he was in his mid 20s, is often disheveled and somewhat hygienically challenged, drive's my mom's old (now) beat to sh*t minivan, and he scores more top shelf tail than I ever thought possible. His secret is he truly, honestly, does not give a f*ck. Women flock to that. They eventually get tired of taking care of him and move on, but it's always too late as he's already long since moved on himself and is seeing someone different on the side. Certainly not the recipe for a long term committed relationship, but it worked great when he was in his 20s. He's now in his early 30s and the whole shtick is getting a little worn and sad. |
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02-28-2018, 03:44 PM | #34 | |
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02-28-2018, 04:10 PM | #36 | |
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The point about women making decisions based on emotion is 100% correct. It's not politically correct, but that's the way their minds work. |
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02-28-2018, 04:15 PM | #37 | |
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On the topic of looking like you have money, I've found more often than not that it just makes you look like a douche. My car and Gucci, Ferragamo, etc. shit has never made a difference. As you said, attraction ultimately comes down to "you." |
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