[TiAg335i]

sounds like you are geting involved with some lousy girls OP.....girls i'e gone on dates with have always offered to pay

even took them out with my BMW

[Joekerr]

Ok - first, I think women should at least offer to pay.

However, that being said, you say you love her (after 3 months I'm not sure how, but whatever - let's assume you are actually in love and not lust) - and she's otherwise the woman of your dreams basically.

Now fast forward to being married (not to her necessarily, just in general) - generally speaking, the husband "pays" for most things, but I view it as a common pot between us. Yes, I might lay down my credit card, but its our account, not mine. So it doesn't phase me. And it wouldn't matter to me if my wife paid. Again, same account. Obviously, we trust each other, which is another requirement, and so a joint account is no issue.

My wife does work as well, and brings in income as well as doing a ton of things around the house - I think I'm very blessed.

My point though is - if you were married, once you are, you have to think of yourselves as one, rather than two individuals. As one, all money, possessions, whatever are shared and it really ceases to matter who paid for dinner. So if she's marriage material, then think about it before dumping her. Nobody is perfect.

[Vanity]

She sounds Korean.

Was I right?

[vioaltec]

if you ever dated a Viet girl then you know what it means to pay for every fucking little shit.

[Quick6EF]

Stopped reading when you said "really love this girl" after dating for three months.


What are u 17?

[GuyOh]

problem #1 - 3 months in and you say you are already in love

#2 - she's a golddigger

[jpsum]

[skinnycow]

if you aren't liking this now, it's only going to get worst. if i'm dating a guy who refuses to let me pay for dinner, then i usually cook for him to make up for it or get him a gift or take him somewhere. girls who never pays for dinner or offers to pay are usually gold diggers.

[Small Yellow]

I pay everything for my girl even 200+ dinners but usually she offers to pay and I reject her. Its those damn 20-30 dollar meals every day that kills me. Shit adds up. IMO don't go to such nice places and like what others say, if she is marriage material you are fine.

[nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

buy her a dildo and tell her to go fuck herself

[Vanity]

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

buy her a dildo and tell her to go fuck herself

LMFAO

+1

THIS.

[Small Yellow]

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

buy her a dildo and tell her to go fuck herself

LOL

[nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

btw, post pics of so called hot gf using said dildo...

[Jayymose]

Wow a lot of replies. First I guess I did jump into the love game sooner than most people's expectations. Second she is Dominican and Im not gonna post a pic of her on here. She works, actually we both work together although I make twice as much as her. She drives a X3, has her own house, 2 kids yada yada. If we were married and both our money went into the same account then we wouldnt be having the conversation. The conversation would be how broke I am since I got this new wife lmao. Thanks for all the input. Just basically had to vent. Thanks for listening!

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by 1hot135I

She drives a X3, has her own house, 2 kids yada yada. If we were married and both our money went into the same account then we wouldnt be having the conversation. The conversation would be how broke I am since I got this new wife lmao. Thanks for all the input. Just basically had to vent. Thanks for listening!

Underline implies "ohh, i see what happened here"

Bold is where you failed. LOL get rid of that baggage handling bitch please.

Sincerely,
Your friend, Kiemyster.

[CollinsE90]

Probably got the house from her ex husband, and has kids. Get rid of that shit now.

[nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

Originally Posted by 1hot135I

Wow a lot of replies. First I guess I did jump into the love game sooner than most people's expectations. Second she is Dominican and Im not gonna post a pic of her on here. She works, actually we both work together although I make twice as much as her. She drives a X3, has her own house, 2 kids yada yada. If we were married and both our money went into the same account then we wouldnt be having the conversation. The conversation would be how broke I am since I got this new wife lmao. Thanks for all the input. Just basically had to vent. Thanks for listening!

What does her being dominican have to do with it? I don't want my toilets cleaned, just a pic....

[markham335i]

3 months and she never says thank you? i would have kicked her out the first time she didnt thank me for treating her out =\

[Vanity]

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

Probably got the house from her ex husband, and has kids. Get rid of that shit now.

Collins is usually right with these things. Listen to the man.

And yeah... She probably took that car and house from her ex-husband because he got fed up like you and she didn't want a lifestyle change. Tada!

[CollinsE90]

Originally Posted by Vanity

Collins is usually right with these things. Listen to the man.

And yeah... She probably took that car and house from her ex-husband because he got fed up like you and she didn't want a lifestyle change. Tada!

She probably is barely making it with 2 kids, because the ex husband is making the smallest payment possible. So she is actually broke and cant afford to pay anyways.

OP how old are you, and her? Serious question

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

OP how old are you, and her? Serious question

first i was like AHAHAHAHAHAHAH

but then serious face

[len56]

unless you a rich young goon, no