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Esteban · 05-21-2021, 04:07 PM

That's your opinion and you're entitled to it. I am as well. Also, I don't have a problem with women, drugs, or alcohol. Do you? Sounds like you might be projecting.

There's no such universal process or staging of grieving and it was never intended to be prescriptive. There's no right or wrong way to do it, especially when being judged by some guy on a forum.

I was offering my personal experience and trying to give some comfort to the member who lost their dog. Not telling people they're 'doing it wrong.'

Lady Jane · 05-21-2021, 04:55 PM

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GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.

So...Technically speaking, Sara and I could be your daughters?

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cmyx6go · 05-21-2021, 05:16 PM

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So...Technically speaking, Sara and I could be your daughters?

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Bitch! Lol. Yes, I am old enough to be your mother.

BMWGUYinCO · 05-21-2021, 05:17 PM

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GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.

Happy Birthday! Hope you party all weekend long. Remember, 58 is the new 38 (but with that comes: 9 pm is the new midnight LOL).

cmyx6go · 05-21-2021, 05:18 PM

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Happy Birthday! Hope you party all weekend long. Remember, 58 is the new 38 (but with that comes: 9 pm is the new midnight LOL).

Thank you! So true.

upstatedoc · 05-21-2021, 05:46 PM

Etoh does help some things.

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1MOREMOD · 05-21-2021, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Esteban

That's your opinion and you're entitled to it. I am as well. Also, I don't have a problem with women, drugs, or alcohol. Do you? Sounds like you might be projecting.

There's no such universal process or staging of grieving and it was never intended to be prescriptive. There's no right or wrong way to do it, especially when being judged by some guy on a forum.

I was offering my personal experience and trying to give some comfort to the member who lost their dog. Not telling people they're 'doing it wrong.'

Agreed. Youre allowed to do it any way you like. Lost a great bullmastiff this past year. No alcohol or drugs and no new dog yet either. Need to be ready.

Esteban · 05-21-2021, 06:27 PM

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Agreed. Youre allowed to do it any way you like. Lost a great bullmastiff this past year. No alcohol or drugs and no new dog yet either. Need to be ready.

There's a loving dog out there waiting for you. Check your local shelter, or however you prefer to adopt.

1MOREMOD · 05-21-2021, 06:53 PM

I know looking for blue cane corso next spring

Joekerr · 05-21-2021, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by cmyx6go

GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.

Happy birthday in advance!

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Nah, that's boring.

I'm an accountant. We practically wrote the book.

2one3E90 · 05-21-2021, 09:06 PM

Just got rear ended. E90 SAVED MY LIFE. Dumb Lexus busted her radiator or something and her bumper is coming out a bit and damaged. Under her hood was smoking LOL. Hit me going 35 or something. Hard braking. The e90 just has scratches. Sucks is that the car infront got hit to. A FCKING SMALL HOLE CUZ MY TOWHOOK AND NOW ITS 3 car collision and im in the middle. Talked to my lawyer and they gonna handle it. I have dashcam footage also. ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS IN THIS SITUATION?

Buug959 · 05-21-2021, 09:17 PM

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Just got rear ended. E90 SAVED MY LIFE. Dumb Lexus busted her radiator or something and her bumper is coming out a bit and damaged. Under her hood was smoking LOL. Hit me going 35 or something. Hard braking. The e90 just has scratches. Sucks is that the car infront got hit to. A FCKING SMALL HOLE CUZ MY TOWHOOK AND NOW ITS 3 car collision and im in the middle. Talked to my lawyer and they gonna handle it. I have dashcam footage also. ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS IN THIS SITUATION?

That sucks. Let your lawyer handle it. That's what they do. Make sure you get your car thoroughly checked by a good body shop and mechanic. You never know what the crash may have bent or broken in the suspension and/or drivetrain.

Suds · 05-21-2021, 09:18 PM

I think you already know, don’t say shit.

2one3E90 · 05-21-2021, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 2one3E90

Just got rear ended. E90 SAVED MY LIFE. Dumb Lexus busted her radiator or something and her bumper is coming out a bit and damaged. Under her hood was smoking LOL. Hit me going 35 or something. Hard braking. The e90 just has scratches. Sucks is that the car infront got hit to. A FCKING SMALL HOLE CUZ MY TOWHOOK AND NOW ITS 3 car collision and im in the middle. Talked to my lawyer and they gonna handle it. I have dashcam footage also. ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS IN THIS SITUATION?

That sucks. Let your lawyer handle it. That's what they do.

My e90 😭😭 Still drives Amazing. Sigh. So gratefull it protected me. And Gratefull I have a lawyer that my family knows so well. Wow E90 is really like a rock. My bumper is still intact and even tho I have solid trans bushings and for the shifter stuff. Shifts amazing and drives amazing still.

Buug959 · 05-21-2021, 09:46 PM

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My e90 😭😭 Still drives Amazing. Sigh. So gratefull it protected me. And Gratefull I have a lawyer that my family knows so well. Wow E90 is really like a rock. My bumper is still intact and even tho I have solid trans bushings and for the shifter stuff. Shifts amazing and drives amazing still.

I'd still get it inspected by a good shop. The Lexus drivers insurance will be paying for it so why wouldn't you?

IllSic_Design · 05-21-2021, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by 2one3E90

Just got rear ended. E90 SAVED MY LIFE. Dumb Lexus busted her radiator or something and her bumper is coming out a bit and damaged. Under her hood was smoking LOL. Hit me going 35 or something. Hard braking. The e90 just has scratches. Sucks is that the car infront got hit to. A FCKING SMALL HOLE CUZ MY TOWHOOK AND NOW ITS 3 car collision and im in the middle. Talked to my lawyer and they gonna handle it. I have dashcam footage also. ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS IN THIS SITUATION?

Here's one... don't drive with a tow hook sticking out of your bumper. As you found out it can cause unnecessary damage to your car or others in the event of something like a fender bender. And it just plain looks dumb unless you're at the track.

upstatedoc · 05-21-2021, 10:27 PM

I think she was distracted by all your stickers

2one3E90 · 05-21-2021, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by 2one3E90

My e90 😭😭 Still drives Amazing. Sigh. So gratefull it protected me. And Gratefull I have a lawyer that my family knows so well. Wow E90 is really like a rock. My bumper is still intact and even tho I have solid trans bushings and for the shifter stuff. Shifts amazing and drives amazing still.

I'd still get it inspected by a good shop. The Lexus drivers insurance will be paying for it so why wouldn't you?

Yeah took it to my shop. I need new struts anyways. He said just bumper and trunk. Good thing I have spare prelci trunk.

M5Rick · 05-22-2021, 04:30 AM

Looking at that lexus suv it seems made of paper, bumper hanging down and left wing separated from hood by gap, was the driver texting? to hit you.
Your E90 seems to be fine if drives ok just bumper repaint maybe.

2one3E90 · 05-22-2021, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by M5Rick

Looking at that lexus suv it seems made of paper, bumper hanging down and left wing separated from hood by gap, was the driver texting? to hit you.
Your E90 seems to be fine if drives ok just bumper repaint maybe.

Yeah alignment might be fcked tho. Trunk and bumper are def damaged. Lexus is like that. Smoke coming out from hood

Dang3r · 05-22-2021, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by cmyx6go

GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.

Yeah, also congrats from overseas Germany, you be few years ahead

2one3E90 · 05-22-2021, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by cmyx6go

GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.

Yeah, also congrats from overseas Germany, you be few years ahead

How fast does time go 20-58?

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