09-21-2015, 11:46 AM | #46 |
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She was raised by irresponsible parents. Her poor decisions now are only the tip of the iceberg. I know you feel its your duty to help her, but this will end up costing you big in the future. Take this from a guy who "knew better."
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09-21-2015, 11:49 AM | #47 |
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09-21-2015, 11:50 AM | #49 |
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OP, if you're also upside down on your car, your fiance can't realistically look at you as knowing more than her and that she should be doing what you say. Without any knowledge of your incomes, life styles, other expenses, etc... I'd say that you may want to look into also getting rid of your car.
She may not have any money saved to buy a car in cash, but if you're willing to help, she can most likely get into a used Corolla or Civic and have very low payments that will still allow her to save money or lower her debt burden. |
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09-21-2015, 11:56 AM | #51 |
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Not all of us are born with financial knowledge. Not all of us had financially responsible parents, relatives or friends to learn from. So you may be right that her parents were irresponsible, but that's not her fault. If she understands that she needs to learn how to manage her money, and is willing to learn how to do so and take the necessary steps, then I think OP should do what he can to help his fiance become more financially responsible. |
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09-21-2015, 12:12 PM | #56 |
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Same here, i stay above 760 but sometimes it'll say good or excellent bc the Amex balance that i pay each month.
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09-21-2015, 12:13 PM | #57 | |
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I must borrow money to build a credit score. I need a credit score to borrow money. 800+ credit score means I have payed 100k or more in interest to get that score. Life should be more than this game we play with the banks |
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09-21-2015, 12:15 PM | #58 |
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Jesus. I spend a lot
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09-21-2015, 12:29 PM | #63 |
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My credit score is over 800 and I haven't spent anywhere near that amount in interest.
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09-21-2015, 12:36 PM | #66 |
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Another factor they use is, total accounts. I only have 3 CC's and that comes up as POOR, less than 10 accounts. I dont wanna have a bunch of credit cards.
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