Am I right or wrong, need opinions

jaiman · 09-18-2008, 01:48 PM

I can't belive this is a serious thread. The op has got to be a troll.

Or mentally retarded.

number335 · 09-18-2008, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by krote345

Ha, what a fucked up thread. Surprised no one has brought the whole fatherhood thing into it. Please explain how you're a good dad if you're banging other women after work instead of coming home to your kids? When your wife finds out and wants a divorce, how does that affect your children?

Come clean man, it's the only way to salvage your relationship with your girl. Unfortunately, if she's smart, she'll move on.

It depends if he meant that he would be the father to his girlfriend's child. At this point he may have multiple children.

hks786 · 09-18-2008, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

What I did is fundamentally wrong. I can’t change the past. Nor can I promise not to do something in the future. Our decisions are based on the circumstances at the time.

So the general consensus is that I am getting is that I should tell her. She is happy, why would I risk destroying our relationship? She isn’t happy for the wrong reasons. That makes no sense. She is happy because I make her happy.

You answered your own problem bro. You said:

"She is happy because I make her happy."

but just before that you said:

"She is happy, why would I risk destroying our relationship?"

That shows you know she is only happy because she DOESNT know about you cheating on her. Deep down you know if she knew the truth she might not be with you.

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

If i didnt know about it. Then whatever. People are people.

I'm sure you wouldnt think that at the time, but if you did then maybe you and your GF think differently about life and values.

Bro I'm not going to repeat everything that people are already saying, but all I'll leave you with is the reminder that if SO many people in this thread alone are saying something to you could it be perhaps that you're wrong?

Just remember what you do affects her and kids you guys might have. Families too maybe. Think about it...

jlstyle · 09-18-2008, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

It seems as if people are typing from their soapboxes. I highly doubt most men would turn down relations when the opportunity presents itself. It doesn’t affect my love for my girlfriend.

Every time I see her I am excited; even still, and vice versa, I pay all her expenses as she starts her career as an artist and our families get along great.

She is happy, that’s what counts.

I just saw this one and damn.
YOU ARE SICK.

danniexi · 09-18-2008, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

If i didnt know about it. Then whatever. People are people.

And apples are apples. and dogs are dogs...

but you are an ass.

stooken · 09-18-2008, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

What I did is fundamentally wrong. I can’t change the past. Nor can I promise not to do something in the future. Our decisions are based on the circumstances at the time.

wow...

quagmire · 09-18-2008, 03:00 PM

May I have your name and GF's name and number so I can call her and tell her the scum bag that she is dating has cheated on her 3 times and doesn't guarantee that he won't again in the future.

Please, don't try to gain support by trying to say us men won't turn down the chance to have sex or try to make us sympathize with you. What you did is wrong. You're still being an idiot. Tell your GF and get the break up over with. She is too good for you. Find a woman who is also a swinger so you can have a happy relationship.

down4it · 09-18-2008, 03:01 PM

I feel you JJ!! All you dudes out there are too emotional... Listen to Tom Lykis and grow up!

quagmire · 09-18-2008, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by down4it

I feel you JJ!! All you dudes out there are too emotional... Listen to Tom Lykis and grow up!

You can't be serious....... We need to grow up?

stooken · 09-18-2008, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by down4it

I feel you JJ!! All you dudes out there are too emotional... Listen to Tom Lykis and grow up!

LOL this has nothing to do with being emotional. it's about respecting his partner.

Hawkeye · 09-18-2008, 03:29 PM

Apparently not everything a guy could want if you cheat on her. That is just a contradiction.

mistermojorizin · 09-18-2008, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by e90AW335i

That only protects what you have now, not what you make "together" during the marriage.

i've heard you can structure it to protect future earnings as well - its like a contract

mistermojorizin · 09-18-2008, 03:34 PM

i think its wrong if you're representing/letting her think that you are monogomous

jj thumper · 09-18-2008, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by danniexi

And apples are apples. and dogs are dogs...

but you are an ass.

Wow, I managed to find the only forum with 99% faithfull men.

number335 · 09-18-2008, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

Wow, I managed to find the only forum with 99% faithfull men.

What type of responses were you expecting?

labrit · 09-18-2008, 04:20 PM

You're a piece of shit and I hope it comes back to you one day as you'll deserve it.

F87LUV · 09-18-2008, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jj thumper

Wow, I managed to find the only forum with 99% faithfull men.

I call BS. Their gfs prob stalk the forum when theyre not looking. Theyre covering their asses.

down4it · 09-18-2008, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ZGirl07

I call BS. Their gfs prob stalk the forum when theyre not looking. Theyre covering their asses.

There are some whacko chicks out there, it wouldnt surprise me.lol

number335 · 09-18-2008, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ZGirl07

I call BS. Their gfs prob stalk the forum when theyre not looking. Theyre covering their asses.

The OP isn't asking if the guys here have ever cheated. The OP is asking if it is right to have cheated and continue to cheat on his future wife. If it was up to me, we should have a polygamist society. But we don't have one, so therefor it's wrong.

F87LUV · 09-18-2008, 04:36 PM

Still, if your gf came on here and you were like YEAHHHH BUDDAY, HIGH FIVE... i think shed bit a little annoyed

number335 · 09-18-2008, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by ZGirl07

Still, if your gf came on here and you were like YEAHHHH BUDDAY, HIGH FIVE... i think shed bit a little annoyed

True...by the way, my girlfriend is the best!

F87LUV · 09-18-2008, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by number335

True...by the way, my girlfriend is the best!

Just sayin'

No ones going to admit to it on a public forum- hence the OP= epic fail

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