[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

I had a friend who liked this chick for hella long. He thought she was like THE ONE for him but she had a bf so he just went on being her friend. After they broke up he was still just being her friends. He was just too afraid/shy to tell her how he truly felt. Then about a year later he told me that he confessed to her and you know what she said????

"It would have been different if you told me this earlier."

One word: EXCUSE!

Time is/was irrelevant. She just wasn't feelin' him!

[BMW F22]

THat's BS dude. They hella hung out :went to dinner, movies, etc. THey talked on the phone a lot too. One lesson I learned from his experience is that girls arent as black and white as men. Almost all girls are pretty grey. THey cant seem to make up their mind about anything.

But let's assume you're right, Aapradi still gotta hear it from her. Cant just go thru life ponderin about it.

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

One word: EXCUSE!

Time is/was irrelevant. She just wasn't feelin' him!

[flush01]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

urgh turns out she didnt wanna share her feelings with me bro, i kept askin her whats wrong? and she said nothin..but i know for certain that she and her bf just broke up, i overheard her conversation with another colleague at work today about the break up and later on tonight when her bf's buddy called her and shiet..i'm definitely movin on though, this girl isnt worth my time! i also asked her why she never calls back and she said: its not that i dont wanna call u back but i really forgot..its the same with william and arief (two of em are my friends).
and i thought yeah right, so after like callin u almost every day u could still forget bout callin back...plus when i called her last week and told her that i couldnt come to work coz i've to study, she told everyone at work that i was out in the shoppin center..i asked her how'd you know? she said: coz i called william that day..apparently william was with me on that day and we just had lunch in the shopping center, after that i left to study with the korean girl! man then i realized that she sucks ass..its my friggin life, i do whatever i want! today i felt bad as i came in for work, luckily no one really cares much coz i'm a goddam dishwasher..she's not even my gf and yet i cant have my privacy
one thing for sure though, this girl isnt worth my time. i tried callin her and she never calls back, then she went askin another friend whats up with me not callin her...f*ckin bitch, i tried to be the best a friend could ever be..she thinks i'm an asshole, total opposite of her bf and all these goody guys here..told her this at work: when a man behaves good all the time, it can only mean 2 things: either he's gay or he's tryna get in ur pants
then she said: whats up with u? u changed...
i didnt even bother to answer her, i mean think about it..if everythin was perfect why break up? i couldnt care less who initiated the break up..yeah i changed, i faked myself tryin to live up to her expectations, tryin to be better than her bf when i already knew it was almost impossible..but i still try coz i think she's worth it...but not anymore and hence i went back being my old self
i'll still be friends with her and call her and ask her out etc., i'm not gonna cut her off coz thats just being rude..but i'll be the real me in front of her, i dont care what she thinks of me. today shows that there's no chemistry between us and theres plenty of better girls for me out there, why the hell should i settle for her...we're so different anyway
i just wish she would patch up with her bf. he's my friend and i can tell that he's a good guy. but whatever, her life her problem
right now i got other things i wanna concentrate on: work, study, mods
end of story, thanks for readin and sharin fellas

translation: she doesn't give a sh!t about you, and you trying to pretend like it's not true, and make some lame excuses how she's not worth it...

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by flush01

translation: she doesn't give a sh!t about you, and you trying to pretend like it's not true, and make some lame excuses how she's not worth it...

half right pal
its true she doesnt give a shit bout me and hence i decided to not give a shit bout her either
when i think a girl is worth it i'll still give a shit bout her even if she hates me
u're supposed to help me move on man, not make me feel like shit
but whatever it is i'm movin on to the next girl w00t

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

THat's BS dude. They hella hung out :went to dinner, movies, etc. THey talked on the phone a lot too. One lesson I learned from his experience is that girls arent as black and white as men. Almost all girls are pretty grey. THey cant seem to make up their mind about anything.

But let's assume you're right, Aapradi still gotta hear it from her. Cant just go thru life ponderin about it.

actually i've tried this method and it backfired. tried to be friends but it was just awkward buddy, i guess thats life
there will be questions unanswered in your life, just gotta learn from it and continue on with ur life
whatever it is i'll keep your comments in my head, perhaps one of these days i'll let her know that she can always turn to me for advice etc.
right now i just wanna be myself and enjoy life. a girl is not what i really need right now but its the money for my future mods

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

right now i just wanna be myself and enjoy life. a girl is not what i really need right now but its the money for my future mods

lol Im going through somewhat of the same situation. Girls I still think about but Im really into mods now too. Thinking about getting those CSL from JLEWI

[ADHD]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

actually i've tried this method and it backfired. tried to be friends but it was just awkward buddy, i guess thats life
there will be questions unanswered in your life, just gotta learn from it and continue on with ur life
whatever it is i'll keep your comments in my head, perhaps one of these days i'll let her know that she can always turn to me for advice etc.
right now i just wanna be myself and enjoy life. a girl is not what i really need right now but its the money for my future mods

yea women just take all your money! your on the right path man! keep it up!

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

lol Im going through somewhat of the same situation. Girls I still think about but Im really into mods now too. Thinking about getting those CSL from JLEWI

oh absolutely get those CSL rims! the spokes extend all the way to the outer rims and i love the way they arch in! should have gotten those

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by ADHD

yea women just take all your money! your on the right path man! keep it up!

lol i guess my car is a woman then, she takes away all my money too
no more chasing girls for me ty, i'm sick of em..they're way too complicated, car work and study are more than enough to keep me busy

[ADHD]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

lol i guess my car is a woman then, she takes away all my money too
no more chasing girls for me ty, i'm sick of em..they're way too complicated, car work and study are more than enough to keep me busy

Let em come to u man! Thats the only way,,Just live your life the way u do and be yourself...dont ever change for any girl! U are yourself NOt who she want u to be! Tell that korean girl ur going take her for a ride ON your car!

[BMW F22]

Oh yeah whatever happened with you and that Korean chick? did you tell her you wanna hit it yet??

Originally Posted by ADHD

Let em come to u man! Thats the only way,,Just live your life the way u do and be yourself...dont ever change for any girl! U are yourself NOt who she want u to be! Tell that korean girl ur going take her for a ride ON your car!

[flush01]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

half right pal
its true she doesnt give a shit bout me and hence i decided to not give a shit bout her either
when i think a girl is worth it i'll still give a shit bout her even if she hates me
u're supposed to help me move on man, not make me feel like shit
but whatever it is i'm movin on to the next girl w00t

when a girl doesn't call back never call her again.... think about it, if you really liked a girl and she called you, would you forget to call her back ? hell no... and whats with the move on sh!t, she wasn't even your gf ?

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by flush01

when a girl doesn't call back never call her again.... think about it, if you really liked a girl and she called you, would you forget to call her back ? hell no... and whats with the move on sh!t, she wasn't even your gf ?

no dude she's just a friend, she had a bf remember. when her bf was away, we hang out every day. when her bf came here for a week, we didnt even talk and i thought thats ok coz she needs quality time. read bella's post in pg 2 she was right that i'm just a filler
when her bf left, she called me up and we started hangin out again...then somehow a while after that she never returns my call, not even a word i got from her. so i didnt bother to call her up anymore, i just hang out with my boys. and during the time i hang out with my boys, she and her friend thought i was plottin against her or some shiet. wtf!
last nite i asked her why she hasnt returned my calls and then she replied with some i called her almost every day and how could she forget to return my calls? my friends called her, she didnt pick it up but at least she returned their calls
dude as you said she doesnt give a fark about me and i just realized it last nite, how dumb
point is i'm movin on, i dont care anymore. this is how i am, i do unto others what others do to me. she doesnt even wanna tell me about the breakup etc. all she said was nothin nothin. well i got news for her, i got nothin to say too.
if what u wanna know if whether i still like her, the answer is yes but as a friend and nothin more than that. i'll let her know that i still care, that i'm here if she ever needs help

[aapriadi]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

Oh yeah whatever happened with you and that Korean chick? did you tell her you wanna hit it yet??

noooo hahaha, the korean girl has a bf too but he's in korea serving the army
no more girls for me man, i'm just tired of em. they're too complicated, cant make up their mind and shiet. my car will be my girl for now