[c0nstant]

Originally Posted by ideliver

in all seriousness...many (but not all) of these girls have SERIOUS emotional issues. I care for many professional dancers and have some experience with their private lives...

Use the brains your parents gave you...trust your instincts...and then be sure to use a condom!

dr drew?

[Buegie]

[marty_mcfly]

Originally Posted by silvergray545

Dude, go out with her and give her a chance...not all girls are complete whores.

Originally Posted by jh valley

lol

^^hahahahahahahahaha

[nmulax]

Ok, even though everything has basically been said, I'll chime in too:

I've dated two girls who danced in the past (both stopped before I met them), and as a bartender I've become friends with a few girls who strip.

Yes, some dancers are bat-shit crazy, some are whores, some are coked out of their mind, some develop a hatred towards guys. But some of them see it as a easy way of making money. Keep in mind that almost all have a untraditional (messed up) background/mental state. Doesn't mean she was abused, but could mean without the lucite heels and neon lights she's one of the most meek and emotionally frail people you've met.

It's possible she digs you, it's possible she's looking to bleed you dry, it's possible she's only being friendly to keep you as repeat business. None of us are going to know this.

Ask yourself right now if you're comfortable with her job.
It's one thing to go to a strip club, it's completely different to think of your girl grinding on some middle-management slob with a wife/kids at home. Cause unless she's the one, the job will outlast you.

[roozie2001]

i would go to Costco. Buy a huge squeeze bottle of Honey. And show her whats up. Every dirty thing that you've ever seen done in a porno...re-enact it. Hell spit on her. Not that I've ever banged a stripper. But I've heard they're amazing in the sack.

[YellowFinger]

[ny176]

Stifler: "When a girl tells you how many guys she slept with, multiply it by three and that's the real number. Didn't you F*****s learn anything at college?"
Dude it's an exact science From one of the american pie movies. Don't know why but this quote popped in my head when she told you she's only been with 4 guys.

[Brunotheboxer]

Run the fuck away. Trust ME.

[guardianangel3290]

This thread is hilarious, I mean think about it. This kid gets a stripper's number and 50 guys post for 4 pages in 1 day about what course of action he should take, yet nobody has given a definitive "right" answer lol.
Maybe women are the smarter sex. lol
I mean this one 18 year old stripper has effectively stumped the collective mind of bimmerpost hahaha

[Blake]

Originally Posted by guardianangel3290

Maybe women are the smarter sex.

have you ever met a woman?

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[guardianangel3290]

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[oneintheory]

this is hilarious. sounds like a fascinating relationship.
dude meets stripper.
stripper maybe likes dude.
dude wants to hook up with stripper.
dude posts ONLINE and asks for advice about said stripper.

destined for success.

[inabis]

1.Why does she call you Alaadin? There might be more to that name than you think....multiple thing come to mind but you answer it.

2. "During the dance she was again saying how she wants to see me out of the club and how she would “rape” me if we were elsewhere. "

I know this might sound a little retarded but anytime a girl says "rape" it's a sign, albeit a bad one. Don't hit it, you might be heading for a real shitty trip.

At the end of the day none of us can make this decision for you. You posting here shows me you've made up your mind and are looking for confirmation.

What do YOU want to do?

My 2 cents.

Edit: Guardianangel, your pics are hilarious

[silvergray545]

Originally Posted by guardianangel3290

I mean this one 18 year old stripper has effectively stumped the collective mind of bimmerpost hahaha

HAHAHA!!!

[antongk]

Originally Posted by inabis

1.Why does she call you Alaadin? There might be more to that name than you think....multiple thing come to mind but you answer it.

2. "During the dance she was again saying how she wants to see me out of the club and how she would “rape” me if we were elsewhere. "

I know this might sound a little retarded but anytime a girl says "rape" it's a sign, albeit a bad one. Don't hit it, you might be heading for a real shitty trip.

At the end of the day none of us can make this decision for you. You posting here shows me you've made up your mind and are looking for confirmation.

What do YOU want to do?

My 2 cents.

Edit: Guardianangel, your pics are hilarious

Well she doesn't address me by aladdin but her friends nicknamed me that i guess because of my dark brown hair and skin color. She calls me by my name but when showing me to her friends they usually bring up the whole aladdin thing.

As for what i wanna do, i pretty much just want to go on a date with the girl and see where ever we go from that. However, i was just a lil confused because shes a stripper. Was/is hard for me to tell if what she is telling me is real and what not. I'm pretty much looking for you guys to tell me how to play my cards right so i can best get to know this girls true intentions..

[Tondtar]

Originally Posted by antongk

Well she doesn't address me by aladdin but her friends nicknamed me that i guess because of my dark brown hair and skin color. She calls me by my name but when showing me to her friends they usually bring up the whole aladdin thing.

As for what i wanna do, i pretty much just want to go on a date with the girl and see where ever we go from that. However, i was just a lil confused because shes a stripper. Was/is hard for me to tell if what she is telling me is real and what not. I'm pretty much looking for you guys to tell me how to play my cards right so i can best get to know this girls true intentions..

You are debating whether you should take out a stripper on a date or not because you don't know "what her true intentions are"? And she is the one who has made the move in the first place?

You youngins crack me up. Can I have your "age", please? I promise to give it back when you are 30 or so

[antongk]

Originally Posted by Tondtar

You are debating whether you should take out a stripper on a date or not because you don't know "what her true intentions are"? And she is the one who has made the move in the first place?

You youngins crack me up. Can I have your "age", please? I promise to give it back when you are 30 or so

hahah hey man, im a scrub at this sort of thing. lol

[Tondtar]

Originally Posted by antongk

hahah hey man, im a scrub at this sort of thing. lol

I understand ....My $0.02 :

1. take her out
2. have a good time
3. Don't pay for anything except dinner, drinks or other date related fun
4. Don't be pushy
5. Let her do all the talking (Good way of knowing "what her true intentions are" but you need to be patient)
6. At the end of the night, if she offers it ...hit it like there is no tomorrow but use protection and common sense.

and

See how things go from there. If nothing else, you just had a memorable evening one way or another. Hopefully, there will be many more

[TiAg335i]

i would never date a girl who was a stripper, wouldn't even think about it...i know you are probably infatuated with her but be prepared to take a hit once she is after some other guy.

a good girl is a slightly shy at first, hesitant, maybe even a little nervous around you, and all the while somewhat self conscious about herself....these all shows signs of a "pure" character. none of these traits apply to this stripper you speak of.

stay away.

[choicez]

Originally Posted by Tondtar

I understand ....My $0.02 :

1. take her out
2. have a good time
3. Don't pay for anything except dinner, drinks or other date related fun
4. Don't be pushy
5. Let her do all the talking (Good way of knowing "what her true intentions are" but you need to be patient)
6. At the end of the night, if she offers it ...hit it like there is no tomorrow but use protection and common sense.

and

See how things go from there. If nothing else, you just had a memorable evening one way or another. Hopefully, there will be many more

This is prolly the best advice yet!

Remember to live your life without regrets but don't do anything that you will regret for the rest of your life.

(Translation for you: Go out with her, have fun, and try to hit it. But don't spend a lot of money, be protected and do NOT go down on her )

[Peanuto]

As I said before I have a few friends who are strippers, but only one of them I trust. I showed her the post. Her response " Uh Uh. Fuck that. Hit it and run! Sounds like serious trouble and problems!"