[geeslice]

Originally Posted by slubu

Here's an update if anyone cares: She called me last night at around midnight saying she was "drunk and horny" and wanted to come over. However, after she told me she was at dinner I lost all interest and just told her to go home and go to sleep.

Question maybe more so for the girls...can I just stop calling her? Or is it to a point where I need to actually tell her I don't want to see her anymore?

You should always call and say "this isn't working." To not call is just a pussy move. It's like you won't be upfront with her and that's just not cool.

[MoreCowbell]

Originally Posted by geeslice

You should always call and say "this isn't working." To not call is just a pussy move. It's like you won't be upfront with her and that's just not cool.

Agreed 100%

[slubu]

Yeah that is my plan of attack when I'm ready to do so. She's going to NY for 2 weeks so it'll be some good time off. Plus, this other girl I've been hanging out with these past 2 weeks has my mind...I constantly think about her. Hopefully that one will progress and it will make it easier to cut this one loose.

[Squawks]

Man, slubu da pimp - it's no wonder why you're livin' in the unsettled frontiers of singleness because hey, if ladies are throwing themselves down at you left and right, I'd be too!

[BellasBmw]

I agree with Gee. Dont leave her hanging. Im sure you would like the same respect back. Just let her know upfront that you arent feeling it, and think its best to just part ways. If you never say a word and stop calling, you look like a bitch, and who knows, she might not get the point either. You know.. the harder the chase, the more a girl wants.. so she might get more into you if u ignore her.

[slubu]

Originally Posted by Squawks

Man, slubu da pimp - it's no wonder why you're livin' in the unsettled frontiers of singleness because hey, if ladies are throwing themselves down at you left and right, I'd be too!

I'd give up singe life for this new girl, which worries the sh*t out of me, because that desire has not come across for a while. As for throwing themselves at me, I woudln't go that far, haha. I've gone through my share of dry streaks here and there. I'm on an upswing currently..

[bringsmewomen]

Originally Posted by slubu

So I've been somewhat seeing this girl for the past month or so and now she wants to "become exclusive" or whatever....basically asked to be my girflriend. Here is the problem however. Since our first meeting, she's put on about 15lbs. WTF? I've seen this girl thin which is what hurts so badly...she's probably an 8.5 normal weight, now she's like a 6.5. She's awesome otherwise, cooks for me, very nice, great in bed, etc...

Question is..what do I do about this situation? I don't have the heart to outright tell her to lose the weight, and otherwise I can't really date her seriously.

Do you love her? Are you still attracted to her? If yes to both, go for it. If no to either dont.

[mava330]

Originally Posted by slubu

I've gone through my share of dry streaks here and there. I'm on an upswing currently..

Bro I'm laughing cuz when I read that line I thought you wrote in "steaks" like the context of "dry steaks."

I see now that you said stReaks and I'm just crackin up.