Stripper help (long read)

Tondtar · 10-03-2009, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by choicez

This is prolly the best advice yet!

Remember to live your life without regrets but don't do anything that you will regret for the rest of your life.

(Translation for you: Go out with her, have fun, and try to hit it. But don't spend a lot of money, be protected and do NOT go down on her

)

<A Big High Five> ... What did I win?

And he can go down on her if he uses dental dam protection. I am not sure how she will react to someone doing so though. It may be taken the wrong way.

http://scc.uchicago.edu/pdf/library/Dental_Dams.pdf

http://std.about.com/od/prevention/h...aldamhowto.htm

BKV122 · 10-03-2009, 08:40 PM

Just take her out. Its just like meeting any other girl, you don't know their intentions till u get to know them better. Should be the same way you play your cards with any other girl. Only difference is that this girl grinds up on guys a few times a week.

But take her out, and see wuts up.

choicez · 10-03-2009, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Tondtar

<A Big High Five> ... What did I win?

A lapdance from her.

OP, hope you're not a virgin. Either way, it seems like you're inexperienced compared to her and you might get the ride of your life.

Mega Man · 10-03-2009, 09:25 PM

Remember, if you catch herpes from her and she didn't tell you she had them, you can sue.

e46e92love · 10-04-2009, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Mike@PYSpeed.com

i would say go for it. if it works then good for you.
if it don't then atleast you know its al BS and you wan't have that regret in your mind telling you that you should have gone out with her and such.
again, she might be that 1 in a million who is serious and no BS'ing

GL

+1. Life ain't life unless you live it. Its an experience, one that you will always remember and have at worst a few good laughs from. Either way, as long as you don't get sucked into shelling money out for this girl (clothes, hair, nails) then why not? BTW, as everyone has said, be smart, use a hat.

Have fun kid......

Cheers,
e46e92

silvergray545 · 10-04-2009, 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tondtar

I understand ....My $0.02 :

1. take her out
2. have a good time
3. Don't pay for anything except dinner, drinks or other date related fun
4. Don't be pushy
5. Let her do all the talking (Good way of knowing "what her true intentions are" but you need to be patient)
6. At the end of the night, if she offers it ...hit it like there is no tomorrow but use protection and common sense.

and

See how things go from there. If nothing else, you just had a memorable evening one way or another. Hopefully, there will be many more

This is the best thing you have ever said.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tondtar

<A Big High Five> ... What did I win?

And he can go down on her if he uses dental dam protection. I am not sure how she will react to someone doing so though. It may be taken the wrong way.

http://scc.uchicago.edu/pdf/library/Dental_Dams.pdf

http://std.about.com/od/prevention/h...aldamhowto.htm

This is the worst thing you have ever said.

I'm gonna make sure to carry around a dental dam from now on...

For the plus size ladies, just go to home depot and buy a tarp.

Tondtar · 10-04-2009, 01:09 AM

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Originally Posted by silvergray545

This is the worst thing you have ever said.

I'm gonna make sure to carry around a dental dam from now on...

For the plus size ladies, just go to home depot and buy a tarp.

Hey, you hang around a bit longer at Chipotle's ..and you will need plenty of Blue tarp dental dams from Home Depot to handle all the Burrito Queen Hotties you'll get to pick up there

Razzy · 10-04-2009, 01:24 AM

Well, I'll chime in. I personally did not find her attractive after seeing her pic and wouldn't have gotten my self in the situation that you did, but then again that's me and this is you. I hope your not going to come and ask us how to put it in next...

BTW: I'm 18 aswell.

silvergray545 · 10-04-2009, 02:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tondtar

Hey, you hang around a bit longer at Chipotle's ..and you will need plenty of Blue tarp dental dams from Home Depot to handle all the Burrito Queen Hotties you'll get to pick up there

Hahaha! That was pretty funny but...we all know that the hot girls that do eat Chipotle, eat it in moderation. You wouldn't know that because they don't put a Chipotle near the old folks home you stay in. Oops...did I say that out loud?

PUDDY · 10-04-2009, 11:22 AM

I really think you need to do some more "field research", record your findings, report back immediately.

chungdae · 10-04-2009, 12:44 PM

Put it in her butt.

Razzy · 10-04-2009, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tondtar

Hey, you hang around a bit longer at Chipotle's ..and you will need plenty of Blue tarp dental dams from Home Depot to handle all the Burrito Queen Hotties you'll get to pick up there

Tandy how old are you?

Razzy · 10-04-2009, 01:03 PM

xT4iw4n3zx · 10-04-2009, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Razzy

Why the hell did it take 5 pages for someone to finally put this up?

Razzy · 10-04-2009, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xT4iw4n3zx

Why the hell did it take 5 pages for someone to finally put this up?

thats what I waswondering!

Tondtar · 10-04-2009, 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Razzy

Tandy how old are you?

You don't wanna know, son

It's "Tondy", BTW ...

Razzy · 10-04-2009, 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tondtar

You don't wanna know, son

It's "Tondy", BTW ...

hence why I call you Tandy

Actually I do wanna know.

scottwww · 10-04-2009, 03:49 PM

Meeting a girl who works as a stripper, thinking she could make good girlfriend material is a very risky idea at best. She works with other strippers who likely have shared their expertise in how to use men. You could become one of her many "friends" and "lovers" who share her with all the others.

Sales people often like their clients. That does not make you their only client. Their job is to make you feel special. Likely she is a hustler.

There are many places you can meet girls at their work to find one who is not just working you. You might find a girlfriend through your friends and acquaintances. You might find one through one of those love connection websites. A good way to find a girl may be to pursue your interests where women also take interest. If you have a faith, you might find one in your congregation.

What came to mind in your description of this dancer is an analogy to a drug dealer. If a dealer wants you to be a user, and you put yourself in a situation where you will be tempted to use, it would be easier to get you to have a taste. Once you have tasted, you will want more. The dealer knows how to bring you along. Eventually, you must have what she is selling and at whatever cost.

Say that this girl is interested in you for an exclusive relationship. How could that be? What does she know? She hasn't even dated you. For whatever reason, she has you marked as a good prospect. If that is based on looks, then is that shallow? If it is based on text messaging and a couple phone calls, is that deep?

Say that you go out and the two of you hit it off. You will become more attached to her than you already are if she wants you to. You can see her and hold her, but you cannot possess her. You would want her to stop dancing, but what else could she do? Maybe her skills are best suited to dancing. Are you one who would help her to change her life to center around another profession? She may not want that, or may not be capable of that.

You may say that you are only looking for a date. From your writing, it appears that you are looking for more. Have your dates often began with a woman telling you how much she wanted your body? If so, how did that turn out?

I would hope that if I were in your shoes, I would tell her that I don't date dancers. Once she has stopped dancing and gone to work in a less suspect profession, then I might consider whether to date. Even then, history can be a good indicator for the future.

It kind of reminds me of missionary dating. A missionary might date someone who is not of their faith because of attraction, perhaps "animal magnetism", or any other reason. In time, the missionary thinks that this new relationship will result in this special someone being saved. Then the relationship can blossom. However, soon enough the missionary is committed and the other has not changed. This kind of thing seldom ends well.

FWIW: My advice is to stay away. She doesn't exist except as a sales pitch.

Mighty M · 10-04-2009, 03:52 PM

What happened to more pictures?

yomama69 · 10-04-2009, 06:27 PM

Do not date a stripper. Women with "normal" jobs are crazy enough.

JB135i · 10-04-2009, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by antongk

why me?

Low standards?

Just kidding man, run like the wind.

I had a kid when I was 18, and it doesn't need to be said, stuff like this will change your life forever, no turning back, no recovery for years, maybe ever. I love my son, but if I had a do-over I would have made different choices for sure.

Go to school, meet good (at least better) women and live a decent life.

No back to the thread, I stopped at this post to make a smart ass comment and give some advice...

Italteen3 · 10-04-2009, 07:41 PM

HIT it and spit it. Seriously though like others have recommended just don't spend more money on her then you would any other girl. If you sense she needs some $$$ what better way then to prey on a guy who she thinks can support her. Also MOST/a lot of girls from broken households have problems.

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Razzy Lieutenant 262 Rep 509 Posts Drives: N/A Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada iTrader: (0)	Well, I'll chime in. I personally did not find her attractive after seeing her pic and wouldn't have gotten my self in the situation that you did, but then again that's me and this is you. I hope your not going to come and ask us how to put it in next... BTW: I'm 18 aswell. Last edited by Razzy; 10-04-2009 at 05:28 PM..
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PUDDY New Member 0 Rep 13 Posts Drives: E90 335i Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: GTA, Ontario iTrader: (0)	I really think you need to do some more "field research", record your findings, report back immediately.
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scottwww Brigadier General 547 Rep 4,760 Posts Drives: 07 BMW 335i, 15 Infiniti Q60S Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: USA iTrader: (0)	Meeting a girl who works as a stripper, thinking she could make good girlfriend material is a very risky idea at best. She works with other strippers who likely have shared their expertise in how to use men. You could become one of her many "friends" and "lovers" who share her with all the others. Sales people often like their clients. That does not make you their only client. Their job is to make you feel special. Likely she is a hustler. There are many places you can meet girls at their work to find one who is not just working you. You might find a girlfriend through your friends and acquaintances. You might find one through one of those love connection websites. A good way to find a girl may be to pursue your interests where women also take interest. If you have a faith, you might find one in your congregation. What came to mind in your description of this dancer is an analogy to a drug dealer. If a dealer wants you to be a user, and you put yourself in a situation where you will be tempted to use, it would be easier to get you to have a taste. Once you have tasted, you will want more. The dealer knows how to bring you along. Eventually, you must have what she is selling and at whatever cost. Say that this girl is interested in you for an exclusive relationship. How could that be? What does she know? She hasn't even dated you. For whatever reason, she has you marked as a good prospect. If that is based on looks, then is that shallow? If it is based on text messaging and a couple phone calls, is that deep? Say that you go out and the two of you hit it off. You will become more attached to her than you already are if she wants you to. You can see her and hold her, but you cannot possess her. You would want her to stop dancing, but what else could she do? Maybe her skills are best suited to dancing. Are you one who would help her to change her life to center around another profession? She may not want that, or may not be capable of that. You may say that you are only looking for a date. From your writing, it appears that you are looking for more. Have your dates often began with a woman telling you how much she wanted your body? If so, how did that turn out? I would hope that if I were in your shoes, I would tell her that I don't date dancers. Once she has stopped dancing and gone to work in a less suspect profession, then I might consider whether to date. Even then, history can be a good indicator for the future. It kind of reminds me of missionary dating. A missionary might date someone who is not of their faith because of attraction, perhaps "animal magnetism", or any other reason. In time, the missionary thinks that this new relationship will result in this special someone being saved. Then the relationship can blossom. However, soon enough the missionary is committed and the other has not changed. This kind of thing seldom ends well. FWIW: My advice is to stay away. She doesn't exist except as a sales pitch. __________________ 2007 BMW 335i E92, Montego Blue on Cream Beige, MT, ZSP, ZPP, CA, PDC, CWP and Style 188 for winter
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Mighty M First Lieutenant 25 Rep 304 Posts Drives: 08 M3 Jerez/FR Manual Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Vienna, VA iTrader: (0)	What happened to more pictures? __________________
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yomama69 Banned 62 Rep 688 Posts Drives: 2007 E90 335i Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Austin, Texas iTrader: (0)	Do not date a stripper. Women with "normal" jobs are crazy enough.
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Italteen3 Captain 65 Rep 765 Posts Drives: 135i JB Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Somewhere..... iTrader: (0)	HIT it and spit it. Seriously though like others have recommended just don't spend more money on her then you would any other girl. If you sense she needs some $$$ what better way then to prey on a guy who she thinks can support her. Also MOST/a lot of girls from broken households have problems.
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