Best Friend Wife cheating

M3Cabrio · 01-18-2011, 11:20 AM

Did somebody say they saw me with your wife?

I did not do it, nobody saw me, you can't prove it!

M3Cabrio · 01-18-2011, 11:21 AM

Especially in TX, they get more than half.

quagmire · 01-18-2011, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by texasmojo

Your too liberal. Your allowed to do whatever you want to a women. But to a married woman you back off and respect that marriage.

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Originally Posted by AiyahPK

Yeah because both parties should know better than to be doing alone time dates if either is in a relationship, even if it is "innocent". IMO it's a total creeper move. Nothing wrong when single but a relationship should be respected.

So if I knew this person for years, but when she gets married I am not allowed to see her unless the husband is present to make sure his wife is not doing anything inappropriate?

I respect a persons relationship in that I don't do anything that is inappropriate in trying to instigate an affair, etc. But, I do not respect guys( or women) that restrict the wife's( or husband) friendship with people because they are afraid the wife( or husband) will not remain faithful.

Now what happens if your wife is bi? How would you guys control that situation?

texasmojo · 01-18-2011, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

So if I knew this person for years, but when she gets married I am not allowed to see her unless the husband is present to make sure his wife is not doing anything inappropriate?

I respect a persons relationship in that I don't do anything that is inappropriate in trying to instigate an affair, etc. But, I do not respect guys( or women) that restrict the wife's( or husband) friendship with people because they are afraid the wife( or husband) will not remain faithful.

Now what happens if your wife is bi? How would you guys control that situation?

How about double dates. Thats far more appropriate. A for the bi question, couple shouldn't have got maried in the first place.

b0bab0i · 01-18-2011, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

So if I knew this person for years, but when she gets married I am not allowed to see her unless the husband is present to make sure his wife is not doing anything inappropriate?

I respect a persons relationship in that I don't do anything that is inappropriate in trying to instigate an affair, etc. But, I do not respect guys( or women) that restrict the wife's( or husband) friendship with people because they are afraid the wife( or husband) will not remain faithful.

Now what happens if your wife is bi? How would you guys control that situation?

Your username is quagmire, because of family guy, I cannot take you seriously.

quagmire · 01-18-2011, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by texasmojo

A for the bi question, couple shouldn't have got maried in the first place.

So if a woman was attracted to both sexes, but fell in love with a guy and wanted to spend her life together with him, she still shouldn't get married? You say this because you would not trust this woman to remain faithful?

A relationship is built on trust. If you can't trust your SO to be faithful, then maybe it is you that shouldn't get married.

JCE · 01-18-2011, 08:27 PM

Why in the fuk would a guy want to hang out with a girl just as friends?

MisterSkiMask · 01-18-2011, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JCE

Why in the fuk would a guy want to hang out with a girl just as friends?

He wouldn't, he is trying to f*ck her. Anyone who says different is either gay or a liar.

JCE · 01-18-2011, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

He wouldn't, he is trying to f*ck her. Anyone who says different is either gay or a liar.

Ding Ding! We have a winner.

What a crock of shyt....we are just friends.

"Be back later honey. Gonna go to the movies and have ice cream with Jane."

Anybody that would think stuff like this is all innocent is an idiot.

quagmire · 01-18-2011, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by JCE

Why in the fuk would a guy want to hang out with a girl just as friends?

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Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

He wouldn't, he is trying to f*ck her. Anyone who says different is either gay or a liar.

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Originally Posted by JCE

Ding Ding! We have a winner.

What a crock of shyt....we are just friends.

"Be back later honey. Gonna go to the movies and have ice cream with Jane."

Anybody that would think stuff like this is all innocent is an idiot.

I get along better with women then guys. Have a problem with that?

.:bHd:. · 01-18-2011, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

Now what happens if your wife is bi? How would you guys control that situation?

why would you marry a girl that is by-sexual? I would date one and try to get a 3 sum going here and there but i wouldn't want the mother of my children going down on other girls.

ScaredOnce · 01-18-2011, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by .:bHd:.

why would you marry a girl that is by-sexual? I would date one and try to get a 3 sum going here and there but i wouldn't want the mother of my children going down on other girls.

Why are you worried about having children? Doctors can kill them on the inside now, it's like 15min.... just circle the block.

JCE · 01-18-2011, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

I get along better with women then guys. Have a problem with that?

Calm down internet tough guy.

I don't have a problem with what anybody does that doesn't effect me, just don't pis on my boots and tell me its raining.

MisterSkiMask · 01-18-2011, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

I get along better with women then guys. Have a problem with that?

f@g

...seriously, you are a liar, you did not set out to be friends with any of these women (the one possible exception is you were trying to bang one of their friends). The only reason that any guys ends up as 'friends' is because he is either gay or has no game, not that there is anything wrong with that.

I myself had a couple of female "friends" I had no game, then I cut them loose, female friends are a waste of time for a guy. The same goes for girls with guy friends. One of the two parties always, let me say that again, ALWAYS wants more then the other.

skinnycow · 01-18-2011, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Comet

I'd walk up to them and be all like "hey herp! how are you?" and then introduce myself to the guy and be all like "I'm her husband's friend! which reminds me, I wanted to talk to him!"
and I pick up the phone "hey derp, I'm at the movies and I just ran into herp and melvin! anyways, I wanted to ask you.." and make up some BS reason to call him

+1

in the end it's not the end of the world, they will either work things out, move on, find someone else, ect.

the one key factor to a relationship is TRUST, so if the person wasn't cheating they won't have anything to worry about. the right thing to do is to tell your best friend and if it's not what it seems like then everything will be okay =) if not, then you just saved your best friend from a relationship full of lies and hurt.

i was in this situation once and i gave the the guy the benefits of the doubt until he started acting shady, then I called my friend and surely enough he lied about where he was suppose to be, they later broke up when he finally confessed about cheating.

quagmire · 01-18-2011, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JCE

Calm down internet tough guy.

Wasn't trying to be an internet tough guy. Bad choice of words.

gun6slinger9 · 01-18-2011, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by quagmire

I get along better with women then guys. Have a problem with that?

+1 I'm pretty sure i have more female friends than male friends. Just depends on the group of people you are hang around with. When I moved to a new high school the first friend I made was an asian chick. The majority of asians were female and in one big group, naturally as an asian I gravitated towards other asians. Through this asian chick I was introduced to her group of friends and became friends with them, it was probably 3 girls for every 2 guys. Then naturally at parties and such I was more interested in meeting girls than guys so I got introduced by the girls to other girls. I'd meet a few guys here and there but befriended even more girls. Now there are a few that I will hang out with without my girlfriend and them without their boyfriends. I wont date/marry anyone with trust issues because if they think they cant trust me then there will just be problems later on down the road.

Those of you who say that once you are married you should not hang out with your opposite sex friends I ask you this. Do you still watch porn? Gaining personal gratification looking at a naked stranger.

Isnt this worse than a innocent hang out with the opposite sex?

JayKay335i · 01-18-2011, 09:59 PM

Seriously though, would you hit it?

ScaredOnce · 01-18-2011, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Seriously though, would you hit it?

yes

JayKay335i · 01-18-2011, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by ScaredOnce

yes

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Couch · 01-19-2011, 11:51 AM

I've hung out with my friends fiance numerous times with just her and I. I've known him my whole life and he knows I'm not going to try anything. He knows we're hanging out, where we're going, etc, so what's the big deal?

She called me around Thanksgiving to come over for dinner and play Wii with her while my friend was studying.

Now if you're going behind someones back and hanging out with someone in a relationship(married or not), it's pretty fucked up.

3002 tii · 01-19-2011, 11:59 AM

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