[Never_Enough]

Where is OP?

[BSM n54iS]

Better be balls deep or back on Tinder

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by BdSM n54iS

Better be balls deep or back on Tinder

Then comes back with pics of this lazy gf

[pz619]

Possible she murdered him. I know what's what would happen to me if I brought this up.

[RickFLM4]

Originally Posted by BdSM n54iS

Better be balls deep or back on Tinder

Does anyone know OP? Most posts in this thread assume OP is a guy...

[BSM n54iS]

Originally Posted by RickFLM4

Does anyone know OP? Most posts in this thread assume OP is a guy...

Better be strap-on balls deep or back on Tinder

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by BdSM n54iS

Better be strap-on balls deep or back on Tinder

[Lups]

Great guys! The one night when I'm under the weather, and now you're talking strap ons!

Fucking traitors! You're worse than my dogs who abandoned my whiny ass too.

[qba335i]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Where is OP?

Sorry guys I was busy... still alive.

GF feels so much better today... even though she slept in the guest bedroom the last 2 nights.
Today She went shoe shopping so at least she will walk around the store a bit Never tired to spend money...
She texted me to pick her up, unfortunately it's about to rain and the car got a full detail yesterday. Well, she should have known better!

She is supposed to sign up for the boxing class today. They offer 5 intro classes and she committed to do 2 times a week... I will try to be less condescending (her words), but will help her accomplish this goal.

Sorry, No pics - she would kill me. She is a petite Armenian girl from Cali. LA/Hollywood area guys know the type.

I opened the thread to get a different perspective so thanks for the tips. She is probably stressed a bit with work, but she needs to be more active when she gets home. She will not be traveling for the next two weeks so we will see how it goes.

[c1pher]

Originally Posted by qba335i

Sorry guys I was busy... still alive.

GF feels so much better today... even though she slept in the guest bedroom the last 2 nights.
Today She went shoe shopping so at least she will walk around the store a bit Never tired to spend money...
She texted me to pick her up, unfortunately it's about to rain and the car got a full detail yesterday. Well, she should have known better!

She is supposed to sign up for the boxing class today. They offer 5 intro classes and she committed to do 2 times a week... I will try to be less condescending (her words), but will help her accomplish this goal.

Sorry, No pics - she would kill me. She is a petite Armenian girl from Cali. LA/Hollywood area guys know the type.

I opened the thread to get a different perspective so thanks for the tips. She is probably stressed a bit with work, but she needs to be more active when she gets home. She will not be traveling for the next two weeks so we will see how it goes.

Temporary respite.

[qba335i]

Originally Posted by Taskmaster

OP, I'm a younger guy with an even younger (now ex) GF who was in the same situation.

GF didn't work, didn't go to school and didn't seem motivated to change any of that. I would press her into doing things, and she would get upset.

Broke up a month ago, and last I heard, she's with a new guy doing the same thing over again. It sucks, and it hurts - but I'm better in the long run, and you will be too.

It could be worst..

My brother was married for 6 months and it's already over 2 years in court trying to finalize the divorce. They don't have kids - she just makes it extremely hard. I think she had like 20 witnesses total...

My last exGF was a former model/law student. After 6 months I found out she was abusing Adderall.. Was a pain to kick her out of my house...

[irishbimmer]

Hard to get rid of live ins, sounds like neither of you guys are perfect for each other for now...but if she is working so much it sounds as if she might be providing financial assistance or might be capable. Some of us have traipsed off to work for years leaving the wife to handle the kids and and the housework. Maybe get some help in that regard and hire a maid service. Second, buy her some flowers and a great bottle of champagne, open it and see what happens.

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by qba335i

GF feels so much better today... even though she slept in the guest bedroom the last 2 nights.

There's more to the story than you have let on, man.

Today She went shoe shopping so at least she will walk around the store a bit Never tired to spend money...
She texted me to pick her up, unfortunately it's about to rain and the car got a full detail yesterday. Well, she should have known better!

HOw'd she get there then. She doesn't have wheels?
Also, did you really tell her "No, can't pick you up, babe. Car just got detailed!" No wonder she doesn't want to do shit with you.

That worried about the car getting wet? Buy a beater.

Sorry, No pics - she would kill me. She is a petite Armenian girl from Cali. LA/Hollywood area guys know the type.

We have petite women all over the country FYI. Also, she would kill you? She's not going to know you little pussy.

[WingZeroX5]

Show her this thread, maybe it'll start something

[qba335i]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

There's more to the story than you have let on, man.

HOw'd she get there then. She doesn't have wheels?
Also, did you really tell her "No, can't pick you up, babe. Car just got detailed!" No wonder she doesn't want to do shit with you.

That worried about the car getting wet? Buy a beater.

We have petite women all over the country FYI. Also, she would kill you? She's not going to know you little pussy.

Unfortunately nothing more to add to the bedroom... my access is temporary suspended.

We work/live in the city. Uber is more convenient and cheaper. $5-10 Uber ride vs $30 parking. She has a car, but we rarely drive maybe 2-3k miles a year.

I paid 350 to detail the car so yes I want to enjoy it over the weekend when we finally get some sun. Again, $5 Uber vs me paying $30 for car wash tomorrow and wasting another hour of my time.
Beater car is not an option as I would have to buy another parking space (40k+) plus assessment and taxes.

She is a pretty private person and would not appreciate that.

Armenian girls are a bit different cause they are petite with big(er) butts

[qba335i]

Originally Posted by WingZeroX5

Show her this thread, maybe it'll start something

It will be the beginning of the end...

[qba335i]

Originally Posted by irishbimmer

Hard to get rid of live ins, sounds like neither of you guys are perfect for each other for now...but if she is working so much it sounds as if she might be providing financial assistance or might be capable. Some of us have traipsed off to work for years leaving the wife to handle the kids and and the housework. Maybe get some help in that regard and hire a maid service. Second, buy her some flowers and a great bottle of champagne, open it and see what happens.

We are both financially independent and maintain separate accounts. We just spilt shopping and going out/entertainment bills. I pay all home related bills as I had this place before her. Money is not an issue here, we can maintain our lifestyle without the other person.

Cleaning is not a big problem, but I will look into cleaning service. Also will get her flowers tomorrow. Thanks

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by qba335i

It could be worst..

My brother was married for 6 months and it's already over 2 years in court trying to finalize the divorce. They don't have kids - she just makes it extremely hard. I think she had like 20 witnesses total...

My last exGF was a former model/law student. After 6 months I found out she was abusing Adderall.. Was a pain to kick her out of my house...

This girl could have easily been a model - 5'11, long red hair, skinny, crazy libido and a perfect bone structure.

Pain in my ass though - complete mess. Sucks, but I didn't want to end up like your brother.

[eluded]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Also, did you really tell her "No, can't pick you up, babe. Car just got detailed!" No wonder she doesn't want to do shit with you.

This. I can't believe she puts up with that. Work 10 hours a day and come home to complaining about not working out or something?

[c1pher]

Originally Posted by qba335i

We are both financially independent and maintain separate accounts. We just spilt shopping and going out/entertainment bills. I pay all home related bills as I had this place before her. Money is not an issue here, we can maintain our lifestyle without the other person.

Cleaning is not a big problem, but I will look into cleaning service. Also will get her flowers tomorrow. Thanks

This is code for she found someone who lets her live rent free. Sleeps in a different room. You have a permanent guest, not a girlfriend. It sounds like she is taking advantage of your thirst or kindness and you are falling for it.

[F32Fleet]

Disclaimer: I have not read any replies to your question.


Error #1: Living with a GF.

You've set expectations of getting married. Perhaps in her mind she's still working her @ss off and living in a relationship which has stalled. She may not be sure that you can pick up the slack if u guys marry and start a family. This i especially true if she's in her 30's because her "market value" as an attractive mate is decreasing daily and "The Wall" is fast approaching. Have you guys set any life goals
together? If not do yourselves a favor and take serious appraisal of the relationship. If it's not going to work out take some minor inconvenience now and go your seperate ways.
There's a monster under the floor and delay just feeds that monster making it get bigger and bigger where the problem becomes a huge inconcenience (eg, divorce, alimony/child support, bankruptcy)

Or do nothing if you enjoy pain in your life and aren't particularly concerned about, potentially, having an as l fulfilling life as possible.

[Turkish Pickle]

my dude if im being honest, i have to side with Alfisti . i do agree that you *could* approach her a bit easier but if she sleeps on the couch/other bedroom/whatever when she's living with you as a girlfriend then yeah it might be time to move on.

you want different things than she does and that's perfectly fine, but why spend your time on being a people pleaser or just feeling like shit because they won't please you (physically and mentally)? from here just the fact that she won't even sleep with you on the same bed as a live-in girl friend is pretty red-flagish, definitely cut losses and move on.

life's too short to drive boring cars and plow boring women