Signs a girl is interested/not interested

TiAg335i · 05-05-2009, 05:30 PM

When you like a girl, but just are not sure if you should ask her out....what should you go by?

yomama69 · 05-05-2009, 05:36 PM

Ask out every girl you come in contact with. Soon enough, one will go out with you.

TiAg335i · 05-05-2009, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by yomama69

Ask out every girl you come in contact with. Soon enough, one will go out with you.

I like this...but not very realistic...

solefald · 05-05-2009, 05:37 PM

if you have to ask, they are probably not interested.

yomama69 · 05-05-2009, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by TiAg335i

I like this...but not very realistic...

Try asking with your fly unzipped and your cock hanging out.

ejazbmw · 05-05-2009, 05:43 PM

i just asked my girl friend out without knowing she liked me. I had a few signs she was interested but none of them were strong enough to make me 100% convinced she was interested in me...my advice is go with your gut feeling

MCMLXXXIX · 05-05-2009, 05:46 PM

touch
body language
the way she talks to you...gets to your level

canucklion · 05-05-2009, 05:48 PM

if you had to ask, she's not interested in you

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Originally Posted by TiAg335i

When you like a girl, but just are not sure if you should ask her out....what should you go by?

I ask because I frequently find myself in these situations.

Girls are all so different though. For example:

Rare girls - SAY they are interested in you more than a friend. How much more obvious can it get? (I've had this happen to me personally).

Majority of other girls - Laugh at you, even when you're not funny, get slightly nervous around you, etc...but never push it any further. Besides, they could just be nervous around you because they know YOU like her.

yomama69 · 05-05-2009, 05:49 PM

There's only one way to find out...

Tie her down.

solefald · 05-05-2009, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by solefald

if you have to ask, they are probably not interested.

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Originally Posted by canucklion

if you had to ask, she's not interested in you

ha! proved my point!

ejazbmw · 05-05-2009, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by canucklion

if you had to ask, she's not interested in you

haha that's also true

Tondtar · 05-05-2009, 05:52 PM

If she flashes you her tit or something even better, it is usually a positive sign

MrAdams · 05-05-2009, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by yomama69

Try asking with your fly unzipped and your cock hanging out.

always works for me

quagmire · 05-05-2009, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

i just asked my girl friend out without knowing she liked me. I had a few signs she was interested but none of them were strong enough to make me 100% convinced she was interested in me...my advice is go with your gut feeling

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Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

touch
body language
the way she talks to you...gets to your level

Both failed for me. :/

Unless I read her wrong.

Jammin Jason · 05-05-2009, 07:34 PM

next time you see her just be like "lets hang out one day, can i get your number" or "lets hang out anytime you're available"
once that day comes take her somewhere where you two can get to know each other. thats what i usually do. but make sure its only you two. no 3rd wheels or anything like that

.:bHd:. · 05-05-2009, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Jammin Jason

next time you see her just be like "lets hang out one day, can i get your number" or "lets hang out anytime you're available"
once that day comes take her somewhere where you two can get to know each other. thats what i usually do. but make sure its only you two. no 3rd wheels or anything like that

fail. that has the answer no written all over it. Don't ask her when she's available. Just ask her to join you in something you're already gonna do WITHOUT her. That way you don't look desperate

Njave · 05-05-2009, 07:59 PM

The best way of knowing that she is interested is calling her at some unusual time, asking her to go to some unusual event, and see the response. Asking her for the number, telling her you're interested has failed written all over it. Be normal and have fun, nobody is gonna tell you the right answer, because nobody really knows it ... soon enouugh (if you have something going there) she will call you.

radix · 05-05-2009, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by TiAg335i

I gave her my number a WHILE ago, but still...no call, no text. Is that bad? Be honest.

A girl taking your phone number is an essentially meaningless gesture. Getting a girls phone number is also, for the most part, meaningless. Calling a girl who's given you her phone number, having her answer and sound excited to hear you is meaningful, particularly if plans ensue.

If she hasn't called or texted, you are not high on her list of priorities.

GAaaAR · 05-05-2009, 08:11 PM

Why would you give her your number and not ask for hers in return?

canucklion · 05-05-2009, 08:12 PM

It's a sign that she's not into you.
I don't know how much more obvious she can get.

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Originally Posted by TiAg335i

I gave her my number a WHILE ago, but still...no call, no text. Is that bad? Be honest.

canucklion · 05-05-2009, 08:13 PM

that's really desperate.

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Originally Posted by Jammin Jason

next time you see her just be like "lets hang out one day, can i get your number" or "lets hang out anytime you're available"
once that day comes take her somewhere where you two can get to know each other. thats what i usually do. but make sure its only you two. no 3rd wheels or anything like that

number335 · 05-05-2009, 08:14 PM

be persistent. if she ends up calling the cops on you then you know she isn't interested.

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Njave Upstairs drinking coffe 26 Rep 171 Posts Drives: BMW F21 118d Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Croatia iTrader: (0)	The best way of knowing that she is interested is calling her at some unusual time, asking her to go to some unusual event, and see the response. Asking her for the number, telling her you're interested has failed written all over it. Be normal and have fun, nobody is gonna tell you the right answer, because nobody really knows it ... soon enouugh (if you have something going there) she will call you.
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