Why do girls expect guys to ALWAYS pay?

shipill · 08-30-2010, 12:55 AM

Okay when I go out with girls who are just my friends, they dont usually offer to slpit the bill and they make lame exuces like oh sorry I dont have cash or next time I will pay the bill and when we go out again they say the same thing lol

I dont understand this? Girls have jobs these days they can support themselves !!

wj4 · 08-30-2010, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by shipill

Okay when I go out with girls who are just my friends, they NEVER offer to slpit the bill. they always expect me to pay the bill and sometimes they make lame exuces like oh sorry I dont have cash or next time I will pay the bill and when we go out again they say the same thing lol

I dont understand this? Girls have jobs these days they can support themselves !!

Seems like they're either:
1. taking advantage of you because you're a simp
or
2. you're hanging out with some lame chicks
or
3. combination of 1 and 2.

Call it the male instinct or whatever, but I always prefer to pay when I ask a girl out..be it on a date or just to hang out. But the girls I hang out/date usually feel bad and offer to pay or at least go dutch. I feel extremely weird when I ask a girl out, go pick her up, and she pays for it. I usually let them pay once in a while or get the movie tickets or something like that so they don't think they're taking advantage of me.

If I was you, I'd drop these girls, and go meet new ones. They sound like dead weight to me.

Sara · 08-30-2010, 01:10 AM

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

Seminole · 08-30-2010, 01:12 AM

You need new friends. I've never had a girl who was just a friend ask me to pay or expect me to.

JayKay335i · 08-30-2010, 01:14 AM

They think you are a tool. You reaffirm your place at Home Depot by continually paying.

wj4 · 08-30-2010, 01:22 AM

I forgot to mention that if you do ditch them, I'm sure some (if not most) will be calling you. They surely don't want to lose a guy like you who they can use for freebies. (No offense, OP).

If you're rich and know of what they're doing and is OK with it..then that's cool. I know a couple of affluent males who hang out with some girls and are expected to pay for everything. They're OK with it. They keep these girls around as pets, as they put it.

FStop7 · 08-30-2010, 01:26 AM

They are shitting on you is why. Stand up for yourself.

lopealle · 08-30-2010, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by wj4

Seems like they're either:
1. taking advantage of you because you're a simp
or
2. you're hanging out with some lame chicks
or
3. combination of 1 and 2.

Call it the male instinct or whatever, but I always prefer to pay when I ask a girl out..be it on a date or just to hang out. But the girls I hang out/date usually feel bad and offer to pay or at least go dutch. I feel extremely weird when I ask a girl out, go pick her up, and she pays for it. I usually let them pay once in a while or get the movie tickets or something like that so they don't think they're taking advantage of me.

If I was you, I'd drop these girls, and go meet new ones. They sound like dead weight to me.

this

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

that

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seminole

You need new friends. I've never had a girl who was just a friend ask me to pay or expect me to.

me either. going dutch is always the way to go

HISI808 · 08-30-2010, 01:41 AM

They are using you. I wouldn't consider them friends.

DougLikesBMW · 08-30-2010, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Stupid female.

That's about all you're good for, a nice warm hole to stick a dick. Just like every other typical American skank.

FStop7 · 08-30-2010, 01:56 AM

yeah, get in there and bake me a sweater.

Turbo>NA · 08-30-2010, 02:27 AM

M E D I A

JayKay335i · 08-30-2010, 02:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sara504

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

Some aren't even worth the dollar menu

Comet · 08-30-2010, 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by FStop7

yeah, get in there and bake me a sweater.

LMAO

sammich me nao

on topic:

they are using you.. clear as day.. obvious excuse is obvious.

I offer to take the bill depending on who the chick friend is and how much fun I had hanging out... and they always argue with me as to why I asked for one bill instead of split.

Year's_End · 08-30-2010, 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by FStop7

yeah, get in there and bake me a sweater.

Robin_NL · 08-30-2010, 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by lopealle

me either. going dutch is always the way to go

Well, I can't remember my (ex)gf/wife paying for going out when I'm around. I'm an idiot.

Chest Rockwell · 08-30-2010, 06:44 AM

There was this epic thread on crazyshit.com about this guy who had a theory that 80% of all women are whores. To test his theory he was renting out one of his properties to only single female tennants, he would then see how long it would take them to offer sex instead of paying the rent for the week. I will say that it was in a lower class neighborhood and the women weren't college educated. I only read through the first 3 ladies but he was able to get all 3 to, of their own free will, give him sex instead of rent and eventually fuck his friends for money. His #1 rule was that he couldn't come out and ask for it, it had to be their idea.

Like I said, I only read the first 3 but he was batting a thousand at that point and I'm pretty sure he met his quota. The guy was an amazing writer too. So I guess the short answer is 80% of all women are whores. To be honest though, if I could get chicks to buy me shit just by hanging around them and sometimes got to give them the "D" as well I would do it too.

Elie335 · 08-30-2010, 07:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sara504

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

OWNED

Quote:

Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Are you fucking kidding me?

Stupid female.

That's about all you're good for, a nice warm hole to stick a dick. Just like every other typical American skank.

you're the man.

2M · 08-30-2010, 08:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sara504

Cause we have the pussy

edit: if they are just friends. Order separately.

So what, we have the dick. It's a 2-way street. You need us just as much as we need you.

escobar929 · 08-30-2010, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Alpine3

So what, we have the dick. It's a 2-way street. You need us just as much as we need you.

im hoping that post was a joke, if not one of the dumbest comment ive seen on the OT section and thats saying a lot (the post you quoted that is)

to the OP, clearly the girls you are hanging out w/ have ZERO respect for you. If I were you, in order to get your balls back, take the one girl out who has been taking the most advantage of you, order up like its your last meal. Once you are done eating, say you are going to the bathroom. Then go back you your car, leave, then text her, its her turn to pay now, kthanxbai. turn off your phone, then meet w/ friends so you can all share the goodies of messages you have once you turn it back on

2M · 08-30-2010, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by escobar929

im hoping that post was a joke, if not one of the dumbest comment ive seen on the OT section and thats saying a lot (the post you quoted that is)

to the OP, clearly the girls you are hanging out w/ have ZERO respect for you. If I were you, in order to get your balls back, take the one girl out who has been taking the most advantage of you, order up like its your last meal. Once you are done eating, say you are going to the bathroom. Then go back you your car, leave, then text her, its her turn to pay now, kthanxbai. turn off your phone, then meet w/ friends so you can all share the goodies of messages you have once you turn it back on

My post is a joke or the one i quoted?

2M · 08-30-2010, 09:26 AM

I pick up the tab the first time but if i dont get anything back next time its 50-50.

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shipill Major 454 Rep 1,292 Posts Drives: F10 528 Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: East iTrader: (7)	Why do girls expect guys to ALWAYS pay? Okay when I go out with girls who are just my friends, they dont usually offer to slpit the bill and they make lame exuces like oh sorry I dont have cash or next time I will pay the bill and when we go out again they say the same thing lol I dont understand this? Girls have jobs these days they can support themselves !! Last edited by shipill; 08-30-2010 at 01:29 AM..
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wj4 Major General 362 Rep 7,719 Posts Drives: E90 manual 335i Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Burbank, CA iTrader: (8)	I forgot to mention that if you do ditch them, I'm sure some (if not most) will be calling you. They surely don't want to lose a guy like you who they can use for freebies. (No offense, OP). If you're rich and know of what they're doing and is OK with it..then that's cool. I know a couple of affluent males who hang out with some girls and are expected to pay for everything. They're OK with it. They keep these girls around as pets, as they put it.
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Chest Rockwell Private First Class 18 Rep 134 Posts Drives: 2011 M3 Sedan Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Maryland iTrader: (0)	There was this epic thread on crazyshit.com about this guy who had a theory that 80% of all women are whores. To test his theory he was renting out one of his properties to only single female tennants, he would then see how long it would take them to offer sex instead of paying the rent for the week. I will say that it was in a lower class neighborhood and the women weren't college educated. I only read through the first 3 ladies but he was able to get all 3 to, of their own free will, give him sex instead of rent and eventually fuck his friends for money. His #1 rule was that he couldn't come out and ask for it, it had to be their idea. Like I said, I only read the first 3 but he was batting a thousand at that point and I'm pretty sure he met his quota. The guy was an amazing writer too. So I guess the short answer is 80% of all women are whores. To be honest though, if I could get chicks to buy me shit just by hanging around them and sometimes got to give them the "D" as well I would do it too.
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