When going out with girlfriend do you...

eNCore · 01-17-2011, 05:53 PM

...pay for the food/drinks/basic spending?

aretardedorange · 01-17-2011, 05:55 PM

No

NYCGP · 01-17-2011, 05:55 PM

ghosthi32 · 01-17-2011, 05:57 PM

RIP OT

NYCGP · 01-17-2011, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ghosthi32

RIP OT

the end is nigh...

Chris.G · 01-17-2011, 06:04 PM

Mate! You got to give her a contract that outlines you will pay for her dinner if she agrees to your clauses. You can have whatever clause you want, mine is usually PIITB as clause one...list of clauses can go on (don't get to carried away). Make sure she SIGNS!

JayKay335i · 01-17-2011, 06:06 PM

Fuck no. I'm in school. She can pay for her own shit. I'm not a fucken whore bank.

NYCGP · 01-17-2011, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Fuck no. I'm in school. She can pay for her own shit. I'm not a fucken whore bank.

you are in rare form tonight

NBRider88 · 01-17-2011, 06:12 PM

When going out with a girlfriend, we either split or take turns for who pays. Simple.

JayKay335i · 01-17-2011, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

you are in rare form tonight

Its still afternoon here. Yeah. I think I'm a little sad. My family was visiting for the weekend. Kind of puts everything into perspective and makes me realize where my life choices have got me. Makes me miss home. Guess its sometimes a little lonely at the top.

ScaredOnce · 01-17-2011, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris.G

Mate! You got to give her a contract that outlines you will pay for her dinner if she agrees to your clauses. You can have whatever clause you want, mine is usually PIITB as clause one...list of clauses can go on (don't get to carried away). Make sure she SIGNS!

This makes a lot of sense. I've searched the forum for a template, do you have one that I can use? If you've already populated the template agreement with PIITB clauses, just leave that in there. Will be useful... thx!

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Its still afternoon here. Yeah. I think I'm a little sad. My family was visiting for the weekend. Kind of puts everything into perspective and makes me realize where my life choices have got me. Makes me miss home. Guess its sometimes a little lonely at the top.

You just made me put down my drink for a second and have a deep talk with my dog. Now I'm all introspective. Thanks, goddamn it.

Quick6EF · 01-17-2011, 10:06 PM

In the (VERY) beginning I paid for everything. Then once we started dating we started to either take turns or split.

but now I'm single wah hooooo!! :-D

eNCore · 01-19-2011, 05:09 PM

Turbo>NA · 01-19-2011, 05:24 PM

I voted for the first option. But it doesnt make sense each girl is different. You have your whores, gf, wifeys, friends, best friends, etc..

I know girls that love to take me out pay. I know girls who only expect me to pay. So it varies..

You can read a lot from a girl when teh bill comes and what they do. I had some leave the table and go to the "restroom." And I had some stand up and fight with me in front of everyone just to pay the bill.

Jed · 01-20-2011, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Turbo>NA

I voted for the first option. But it doesnt make sense each girl is different. You have your whores, gf, wifeys, friends, best friends, etc..

I know girls that love to take me out pay. I know girls who only expect me to pay. So it varies..

You can read a lot from a girl when teh bill comes and what they do. I had some leave the table and go to the "restroom." And I had some stand up and fight with me in front of everyone just to pay the bill.

Wholeheartedly agree with this. If it's like a good female friend we'll split as I would with any of my guy buddies.

But with my girlfriend, for the most part I pay for our dinner/drinks - as I believe it's the man's role to take care of his woman. She will fight for the bill and try to pay or at least split and I appreciate that.

Sometimes I will let her because in part, I don't want to take away her feeling of independance or being able to contribute either, if that makes sense. She does feel bad, but she makes up for it in other ways.

If she just sat there without doing anything or expected it, she'd be gone in a second.

Green Lantern · 01-20-2011, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Fuck no.

That's what she said.

Depends... what are the benefits?

escobar929 · 01-20-2011, 10:24 AM

depends on who she is

Verbiage · 01-20-2011, 12:53 PM

Anyone who didn't pick one of the first two needs to reconsider their manhood/values.

Flame on, bitches.

1ForAll · 01-20-2011, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Anyone who didn't pick one of the first two needs to reconsider their manhood/values.

Flame on, bitches.

This.

Verbiage · 01-20-2011, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by ghosthi32

RIP OT

Bavarian III likes this.

persian54 · 01-20-2011, 01:54 PM

depends which girl

but with my gf, i generally pay with her occasionally paying

with my girl, same as above except I'll pay more often

and if it's with a girl I seldom have time go out with, I pay

NBRider88 · 01-20-2011, 03:29 PM

View Poll Results: When going out with girlfriend do you pay for the food/drinks/base spending?
All the time, because that is what guys are suppose to do.	44	36.97%
Most of the time.	45	37.82%
We split it.	10	8.40%
We switch off.	16	13.45%
She pays for me.	4	3.36%
Voters: 119. You may not vote on this poll

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01-17-2011, 06:04 PM	#6
Chris.G Banned 110 Rep 3,120 Posts Drives: 2011 LCI MSPORT X5 30d Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia iTrader: (0)	Mate! You got to give her a contract that outlines you will pay for her dinner if she agrees to your clauses. You can have whatever clause you want, mine is usually PIITB as clause one...list of clauses can go on (don't get to carried away). Make sure she SIGNS!
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JayKay335i Banned 198 Rep 5,046 Posts Drives: ///M323 DCT Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: North Dakota; its best DUHHHHHH iTrader: (1)	Fuck no. I'm in school. She can pay for her own shit. I'm not a fucken whore bank.
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01-17-2011, 06:12 PM	#9
NBRider88 I gave her my heart, she gave me crabs 20 Rep 143 Posts Drives: 06' 330i Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: OC :] iTrader: (2)	When going out with a girlfriend, we either split or take turns for who pays. Simple.
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01-17-2011, 10:06 PM	#12
Quick6EF Lieutenant 93 Rep 489 Posts Drives: E92 Space Gray Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Boston iTrader: (0)	In the (VERY) beginning I paid for everything. Then once we started dating we started to either take turns or split. but now I'm single wah hooooo!! :-D __________________
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01-19-2011, 05:09 PM	#13
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Turbo>NA xbox gamertag: HuGeBluEmOnKeY 265 Rep 3,757 Posts Drives: M-Sport LCI Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: SoCal (626) iTrader: (2)	I voted for the first option. But it doesnt make sense each girl is different. You have your whores, gf, wifeys, friends, best friends, etc.. I know girls that love to take me out pay. I know girls who only expect me to pay. So it varies.. You can read a lot from a girl when teh bill comes and what they do. I had some leave the table and go to the "restroom." And I had some stand up and fight with me in front of everyone just to pay the bill. __________________ E92 335i alpine white \| black dokota \| auto \| zpp \| zsp \| heated \| iPod - ltbmw : vorsteiner : linea corsa : h&r : k&n : e92-lighting : expectalot-vinyl - --GONE--
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01-20-2011, 10:24 AM	#17
escobar929 Brigadier General 154 Rep 4,528 Posts Drives: M2 CS Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Hollywood, FL iTrader: (14) Garage List 2020 M2 CS [10.00] 2020 M240i [0.00]	depends on who she is
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Verbiage Dismembered Member 3637 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	Anyone who didn't pick one of the first two needs to reconsider their manhood/values. Flame on, bitches. __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
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01-20-2011, 01:54 PM	#21
persian54 Lieutenant General 970 Rep 15,818 Posts Drives: M760/G83M4 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: The Valley, SoCal iTrader: (298)	depends which girl but with my gf, i generally pay with her occasionally paying with my girl, same as above except I'll pay more often and if it's with a girl I seldom have time go out with, I pay __________________ From E93 335i to E89 Z4 to E93 M3/E89 Z4 to E350/SL550
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01-20-2011, 03:29 PM	#22
NBRider88 I gave her my heart, she gave me crabs 20 Rep 143 Posts Drives: 06' 330i Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: OC :] iTrader: (2)
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