She's Leaving

wuufer001 · 02-28-2007, 05:38 AM

My girlfriend and i have been together for years now and we have basically been together and seeing each other everyday cause we stay at the same apartment. Now her mum in Chicago is staying with her younger brother but her mum recently got a bad pain in her leg from previous accident and she is giong back to Taiwan to get a doctor. My girlfriend will be leaving on Friday to Chicago to take care of her brother until her mum comes back but the thing is i don't know how long she is going to take. Don't know how it's going to feel like living by myself since i'm so used to it now that she is with me everyday. Guess i will be on the forum 24/7 unless i have class. Anyone had a girlfriend/wife far away from them for very long? How you people cope with that?

herbz · 02-28-2007, 06:25 AM

say hello to your right hand

tommydogsdad · 02-28-2007, 06:33 AM

You'll get through it. I travel quite frequently for business. We've found that we kind of like our "alone" time. It makes getting back together more hot. We lock ourselves in our room and call in sick for like 3 days!

darkcloud · 02-28-2007, 08:28 AM

Why does her mom want to go back to Taiwan to get a doctor? Are the ones in Chicago not good enough or does she want some old medicine? She could take a 8 hour drive east and go to the Cleveland Clinic, one of the best hospitals in the world. I see soooo many Maybachs at that place when I drive by. So many rich people flying here for that place.

canuck335i · 02-28-2007, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by herbz

say hello to your right hand

he can even cheat with the left

AK · 02-28-2007, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by canuck335i

he can even cheat with the left

Or he can use both and have a threesome

AK · 02-28-2007, 10:08 AM

No really, you could spend the time doing something to surprise her when she gets back. You could work out and get really fit or rearrange your livingroom or just arrange for something special when she gets back. It´s sort of healthy being away from each other once in a while!

Juggs · 02-28-2007, 10:10 AM

well it gives you time to reflect and go out with your buddies a bit. its actually nice to get your identity back.... you'll see

KL2DC · 02-28-2007, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Juggs

well it gives you time to reflect and go out with your buddies a bit. its actually nice to get your identity back.... you'll see

+1

I'm away a few time of the year (couple of days at a time). The longest I'd been away from the wife was about 4 months. I think its a good thing, it recharges the relationship and yourself. Don't think too much of it...

myfirstbimmer · 02-28-2007, 10:26 AM

Agreed with the rest, you will get used to it. You can always travel up to Chicago and vist her whenever you have the time.

Marven · 02-28-2007, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by herbz

say hello to your right hand

No doubt it is tuff..My wife's from the UK and she goes often..so I just hang out with family and friends...kinda helps you reconnect with those relationships we often forget about...I also like to do my own thing...have you ever heard this saying
"put a little space in your togetherness"...

aapriadi · 02-28-2007, 11:48 AM

surprise her when she comes back by having another girl living with you

jokes aside, as long as she's not in chicago for a long time then you should be ok..just give her a call when you miss her, yes you'll miss her badly for the first few weeks and it might stretch till a month or so

while she's gone start hanging out with your friends or visit your family

dont forget, you always have us and this forum

btw + 1 on cleveland clinic

Juggs · 02-28-2007, 12:06 PM

FYI - my girl and i have been doing the long distance thing for a few months now. its hard as hell but definitely makes you appreciate the time with her that much more

MoreCowbell · 02-28-2007, 12:07 PM

2009BMW335 · 02-28-2007, 01:31 PM

i'd be most worried about who's going to pay her share of the rent

AK · 02-28-2007, 01:38 PM

Here´s one:

Walked U · 02-28-2007, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by ak

Here´s one:

Oh shit hahahaha, that was so harsh

just4kickz · 02-28-2007, 04:03 PM

marry her.

BMW F22 · 02-28-2007, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by herbz

say hello to your right hand

Unless he's left-handed

sixspeedsam · 02-28-2007, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ak

Or he can use both and have a threesome

God I hope he doesn't have any animals in his house ...

GuillaumeSoete · 02-28-2007, 04:35 PM

My GF actually leaves in Singapore, I know what you're gonna go through. And it sucks. Be patient, mate, that's all I can say.

Guillaume

cm3rc · 02-28-2007, 05:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by herbz

say hello to your right hand

Quote:

Originally Posted by canuck335i

he can even cheat with the left

Quote:

Originally Posted by ak

Or he can use both and have a threesome

02-28-2007, 05:38 AM	#1
wuufer001 Colonel 403 Rep 2,348 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 M/T Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: DFW, TX//Taiwan//South Africa iTrader: (5) Garage List 2006 325i [9.34]	She's Leaving My girlfriend and i have been together for years now and we have basically been together and seeing each other everyday cause we stay at the same apartment. Now her mum in Chicago is staying with her younger brother but her mum recently got a bad pain in her leg from previous accident and she is giong back to Taiwan to get a doctor. My girlfriend will be leaving on Friday to Chicago to take care of her brother until her mum comes back but the thing is i don't know how long she is going to take. Don't know how it's going to feel like living by myself since i'm so used to it now that she is with me everyday. Guess i will be on the forum 24/7 unless i have class. Anyone had a girlfriend/wife far away from them for very long? How you people cope with that? __________________
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tommydogsdad On My Third Drop Top BMW! 26 Rep 410 Posts Drives: E93 335i Convertible Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: CA iTrader: (0)	You'll get through it. I travel quite frequently for business. We've found that we kind of like our "alone" time. It makes getting back together more hot. We lock ourselves in our room and call in sick for like 3 days! __________________ E93 335i Convertible \| Alpine White \| Black Dakota Leather \| Comfort Access\| Cold/Sport/Premium \| Series 7 Logic w/ USB \| Step & Paddles \| 40% Tint \|
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darkcloud Colonel 353 Rep 2,385 Posts Drives: 09 VW JSW Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: cleveland, oh iTrader: (2) Garage List 2006 325i [0.00]	Why does her mom want to go back to Taiwan to get a doctor? Are the ones in Chicago not good enough or does she want some old medicine? She could take a 8 hour drive east and go to the Cleveland Clinic, one of the best hospitals in the world. I see soooo many Maybachs at that place when I drive by. So many rich people flying here for that place. __________________ retired 06 E90 325i New: 09 VW Platinum Grey Jetta Sportwagen 2.0T SEL w/DSG, panoramic sunroof and Ipod adapter
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AK Lieutenant 27 Rep 409 Posts Drives: 320d Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Norway iTrader: (1) Garage List 2007 320d Sedan [0.00]	No really, you could spend the time doing something to surprise her when she gets back. You could work out and get really fit or rearrange your livingroom or just arrange for something special when she gets back. It´s sort of healthy being away from each other once in a while!
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Juggs Bavarian Motor Werks Fanatic 154 Rep 245 Posts Drives: BMW 325i sport Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Dallas iTrader: (1)	well it gives you time to reflect and go out with your buddies a bit. its actually nice to get your identity back.... you'll see
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myfirstbimmer Private First Class 17 Rep 145 Posts Drives: E90 SG 330i Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: T.O. iTrader: (0)	Agreed with the rest, you will get used to it. You can always travel up to Chicago and vist her whenever you have the time. __________________ 35% Formula 1 Ceramic Tints, //M E-Brake handle, //M Steering Wheel
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aapriadi Colonel 203 Rep 2,068 Posts Drives: '13 F30 AW 320i Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia iTrader: (10)	surprise her when she comes back by having another girl living with you jokes aside, as long as she's not in chicago for a long time then you should be ok..just give her a call when you miss her, yes you'll miss her badly for the first few weeks and it might stretch till a month or so while she's gone start hanging out with your friends or visit your family dont forget, you always have us and this forum btw + 1 on cleveland clinic __________________ mod = crack
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Juggs Bavarian Motor Werks Fanatic 154 Rep 245 Posts Drives: BMW 325i sport Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Dallas iTrader: (1)	FYI - my girl and i have been doing the long distance thing for a few months now. its hard as hell but definitely makes you appreciate the time with her that much more
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GuillaumeSoete Second Lieutenant 28 Rep 282 Posts Drives: 1M Coupé & Tesla 85 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Belgium iTrader: (0)	My GF actually leaves in Singapore, I know what you're gonna go through. And it sucks. Be patient, mate, that's all I can say. Guillaume
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