Help me pull my ass together

thetedderbear · 10-04-2011, 08:32 PM

So I just ended things with my girlfriend of a year and a half. I wish I didn\'t have to but it was for the better. I know you guys arent known for being comforting which is kinda what I need. Say anything, I just needed a place to vent and I\'m lame enough to do it on here

just4kickz · 10-04-2011, 08:34 PM

don't you have real friends for this

Blake · 10-04-2011, 08:39 PM

So if you need a place to vent, why haven't you vented yet? Details...

N55 · 10-04-2011, 08:40 PM

^ +1

and

panicos81 · 10-04-2011, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thetedderbear

So I just ended things with my girlfriend of a year and a half. I wish I didn\'t have to but it was for the better. I know you guys arent known for being comforting which is kinda what I need. Say anything, I just needed a place to vent and I\'m lame enough to do it on here

why did you end it if you didnt want to?

thetedderbear · 10-04-2011, 08:46 PM

I'm a lone wolf. Not really but they aren't available right now, kinda annoying. Anywho, there isn't much to it, we dated for a year and a half and loved it, everything was perfect until 2 months ago, everything started going down the tubes. We slowly drifted apart and ended up fighting alot. I kinda saw this coming, but now that its happened I'm waffling back and forth between wether it was the right decision or not. I still care about her, but dont wanna date her, but she's one of those who hates every single one of her ex's. It sucked hurting her like this. That's the story pretty much. Just did it today so it's pretty heavy on my mind

thetedderbear · 10-04-2011, 08:48 PM

I ended it because we weren't working as a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. But I still care about her. Sorry, I don't have any pics available right now, I'll post if I can find some

3_runner · 10-04-2011, 09:00 PM

Well... this thread might be legit seeing as you posted more than once. In which case, plenty of more fish in the sea. Also, scotch will help.

Blake · 10-04-2011, 09:00 PM

Was she talking to other dudes?

panicos81 · 10-04-2011, 09:00 PM

dont worry about it, if its not working its not working. you feel bad now but in a few months you will forget all about it and move on (saying months for if she actually maint something but for 1 1/2 year it must have).

i may change my opinion depending on the pics

thetedderbear · 10-04-2011, 09:04 PM

Nope, we were faithful. Yeah, this is legit. Thanks though guys, it sucks now but I'm looking forward.
1 to the scotch comment!

Blake · 10-04-2011, 09:10 PM

my suggestion (and probably the suggestion of 95% of the guys on this forum) is to run out and get some new pussy (or 3) as quickly as possible. no relationship...just a girl that you can pound whenever. distraction pussy is a great tool for getting over someone, and a great reminder that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Jerzguju · 10-04-2011, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thetedderbear

I'm a lone wolf. Not really but they aren't available right now, kinda annoying. Anywho, there isn't much to it, we dated for a year and a half and loved it, everything was perfect until 2 months ago, everything started going down the tubes. We slowly drifted apart and ended up fighting alot. I kinda saw this coming, but now that its happened I'm waffling back and forth between wether it was the right decision or not. I still care about her, but dont wanna date her, but she's one of those who hates every single one of her ex's. It sucked hurting her like this. That's the story pretty much. Just did it today so it's pretty heavy on my mind

Sometimes you need time apart to realize what your missing or know what you have or on the other hand learn the grass is greener on the other side and be happy with your decision. Time will tell! till then stay busy. Whatever you do just be honest with her and give her a legitimate reason that both of you agree on as to why you ended it and that way she can't hate you as much! Atleast you acted on your thoughts so more power to ya

jpsum · 10-04-2011, 09:15 PM

you can't live without her

until you find somebody else

carve · 10-04-2011, 09:16 PM

Yeah...try to avoid the fishy ones though.

Kroy · 10-04-2011, 09:17 PM

bury yourself in work. before you know it you'll be promoted and over her.

lopealle · 10-04-2011, 09:17 PM

Fuck it......find a different chic you will be fine. We all dump and get dumped....think it as more money in your pocket

Kroy · 10-04-2011, 09:21 PM

Jerry needs to comment on some of these threads with his motivational excerpts. Cause if it's not a bad thing, it's a good thing.

NYCGP · 10-04-2011, 09:29 PM

So tired of this love advice shit.... You made the decision to split. That's the hardest part. Now be a man and follow through.

Blake · 10-04-2011, 09:41 PM

vince mad

1sikbmr · 10-04-2011, 10:02 PM

need noodz of gf before we help you

BMWinNorthdakota · 10-04-2011, 11:27 PM

Gosh, we are so considerate and understanding as of late.

10-04-2011, 08:32 PM	#1
thetedderbear Captain 77 Rep 632 Posts Drives: Fiesta ST Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Arkansas iTrader: (1)	Help me pull my ass together So I just ended things with my girlfriend of a year and a half. I wish I didn\'t have to but it was for the better. I know you guys arent known for being comforting which is kinda what I need. Say anything, I just needed a place to vent and I\'m lame enough to do it on here
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10-04-2011, 08:39 PM	#3
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10-04-2011, 08:46 PM	#6
thetedderbear Captain 77 Rep 632 Posts Drives: Fiesta ST Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Arkansas iTrader: (1)	I'm a lone wolf. Not really but they aren't available right now, kinda annoying. Anywho, there isn't much to it, we dated for a year and a half and loved it, everything was perfect until 2 months ago, everything started going down the tubes. We slowly drifted apart and ended up fighting alot. I kinda saw this coming, but now that its happened I'm waffling back and forth between wether it was the right decision or not. I still care about her, but dont wanna date her, but she's one of those who hates every single one of her ex's. It sucked hurting her like this. That's the story pretty much. Just did it today so it's pretty heavy on my mind
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10-04-2011, 08:48 PM	#7
thetedderbear Captain 77 Rep 632 Posts Drives: Fiesta ST Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Arkansas iTrader: (1)	I ended it because we weren't working as a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. But I still care about her. Sorry, I don't have any pics available right now, I'll post if I can find some
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10-04-2011, 09:00 PM	#8
3_runner Private First Class 4 Rep 197 Posts Drives: 328xi Join Date: May 2011 Location: Cape Cod iTrader: (1)	Well... this thread might be legit seeing as you posted more than once. In which case, plenty of more fish in the sea. Also, scotch will help.
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10-04-2011, 09:00 PM	#10
panicos81 Colonel 237 Rep 2,327 Posts Drives: a white bmw Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Cyprus iTrader: (2) Garage List 2010 BMW E92 [8.54] 2007 e90 [0.00]	dont worry about it, if its not working its not working. you feel bad now but in a few months you will forget all about it and move on (saying months for if she actually maint something but for 1 1/2 year it must have). i may change my opinion depending on the pics __________________ E90post E9x photo game= 67[70-3] COTM 06/11 http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=531094 My webpage. Feel free to visit My 500px
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10-04-2011, 09:04 PM	#11
thetedderbear Captain 77 Rep 632 Posts Drives: Fiesta ST Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Arkansas iTrader: (1)	Nope, we were faithful. Yeah, this is legit. Thanks though guys, it sucks now but I'm looking forward. 1 to the scotch comment!
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10-04-2011, 09:10 PM	#12
Blake Banned 838 Rep 4,643 Posts Drives: Chevy Aveo Join Date: May 2008 Location: Parent's Basement iTrader: (7)	my suggestion (and probably the suggestion of 95% of the guys on this forum) is to run out and get some new pussy (or 3) as quickly as possible. no relationship...just a girl that you can pound whenever. distraction pussy is a great tool for getting over someone, and a great reminder that there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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10-04-2011, 09:15 PM	#14
jpsum Major 300 Rep 1,088 Posts Drives: 2010 TSX Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: New Haven area iTrader: (4)	you can't live without her until you find somebody else
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carve Major 197 Rep 1,105 Posts Drives: 335i Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: usa iTrader: (0)	Yeah...try to avoid the fishy ones though.
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10-04-2011, 09:17 PM	#16
Kroy Brigadier General 184 Rep 3,032 Posts Drives: E90 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA iTrader: (1)	bury yourself in work. before you know it you'll be promoted and over her.
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10-04-2011, 09:17 PM	#17
lopealle Resident Black Guy 280 Rep 2,302 Posts Drives: Lion Join Date: May 2009 Location: Federal Way, WA iTrader: (2) Garage List 2006 M5 [10.00]	Fuck it......find a different chic you will be fine. We all dump and get dumped....think it as more money in your pocket
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10-04-2011, 09:21 PM	#18
Kroy Brigadier General 184 Rep 3,032 Posts Drives: E90 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA iTrader: (1)	Jerry needs to comment on some of these threads with his motivational excerpts. Cause if it's not a bad thing, it's a good thing.
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10-04-2011, 09:29 PM	#19
NYCGP WTF are you looking at? 259 Rep 1,560 Posts Drives: Bandwagon Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Jungle iTrader: (0)	So tired of this love advice shit.... You made the decision to split. That's the hardest part. Now be a man and follow through.
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10-04-2011, 09:41 PM	#20
Blake Banned 838 Rep 4,643 Posts Drives: Chevy Aveo Join Date: May 2008 Location: Parent's Basement iTrader: (7)	vince mad
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1sikbmr Brigadier General 155 Rep 3,330 Posts Drives: F80 M3 6MT Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: New York iTrader: (16)	need noodz of gf before we help you __________________ F80 ///M3 6MT Avus Blue ZCP
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BMWinNorthdakota Banned 260 Rep 1,106 Posts Drives: 2007 bmw 335i e90 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Fargo ND iTrader: (0)	Gosh, we are so considerate and understanding as of late.
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